Originally posted by: nonameo
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Printer Bandit
I honestly do not have any friends. Relatives don't count. Let's say I wanted to go out to eat or see a movie or even if I was stranded on the side of the road with a flat tire...I would have not have anyone to call. That makes me sad...
you get an F for effort.
to have a friend you have to be a friend. go do something about it.
*sigh...
I hate it when people make arguments like this. It's patently false.
Let's say you have a group of 10 people. None of them are friends, and none of them have any friends. Let's apply your rule.
Let's say that one of these 10 people decides he/she wants a friend.Now remember, none of them are friends YET.
"To have a friend you have to be a friend"
So this person goes and befriends one of these 10 people that have NO friends currently.
Now, TWO of these people now have friends, but only one of them had to try.
Some people make friends without trying.
Some people have to try.
Some people try and fail.
This means a couple of things.
A. People are not trying to befriend the OP.(this can hurt a person pretty bad by itself... if people are out trying to befriend people, you'd think someone would try to befriend me)
B. if the OP is trying and failing(even worse)
C. The OP is not trying.
So, why might people not want to befriend the OP???
1. They might want to, but do not know it yet. The OP is not broadcasting his qualities well.
2. The OP is broadcasting his qualities, but they are not the ones people around him desire.
3. The OP is giving off bad vibes.(depressed, doesn't smile, sulks, whiner, etc. or possibly physical. Think BO.)
In any case, you'll have to make friends with people. People like people who have friends, and so the more you have, the more people will want to be your friend.
Caveat: friends as in hang out buddies, not lifelong friends.