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Think I got depression

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Originally posted by: clarkey01
Me and my gf broke up after 5 years, I feel like I m running on empty. Getting with other girls doesn?t matter to me. I just wana booze and listen to sad songs. I feel pretty depressed. We had broke up before and got back together a year later, and I still loved her. I still do. I don?t want to go into the reasons. I just need help. I feel like going to the doctor, my stomach is in knots, my chest hurts, and I don?t feel like eating. I feel heart broken. I think its depression setting in. 🙁
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trust me you need company. i don't just mean random people, you need people that give a shiat about you.

 
Originally posted by: mcveigh
be careful of the drugs, like 50% of the people I see at work (medical field) are on anti-depressants and they seem to never get off them.
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Those people probably have a chronic, life-long depression.

This guy is having a depressive episode, as a response to a traumatic breakup. This type of depression is very responsive to treatment, especially if it is caught early. I think he should get to a GP ASAP; but also he should at least TRY to reach out to a friend and talk about this (or maybe go talk to a counselor). You don't have to always be the tough guy, it is OK at times to express your feelings, sadness.
 
maybe she broke up with you because you whine and pout too much. Get over it. You want something to really be depressed about? Go lay your head on a hot stove and get back to me.
 
Originally posted by: clamum
You just broke up, it's normal to feel like sh!t. You'll get over it. Get some sleep or get drunk with your friends.
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that's it dude.
can't avoid this, but it will eventually go away.
if you were capable of a long serious relationship, you can do it again, and everything will eventually be fine again, and next thing you know it, you'll be happier than hell 😀
 
Originally posted by: clarkey01
Me and my gf broke up after 5 years, I feel like I m running on empty. Getting with other girls doesn?t matter to me. I just wana booze and listen to sad songs. I feel pretty depressed. We had broke up before and got back together a year later, and I still loved her. I still do. I don?t want to go into the reasons. I just need help. I feel like going to the doctor, my stomach is in knots, my chest hurts, and I don?t feel like eating. I feel heart broken. I think its depression setting in. 🙁
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It gets worse, trust me. It also gets better. Depending on the reasons, you could be better off without the bitch. Just get over it and move on. I know it seems hard and unthinkable to be with someone else, but it'll happen. Just trust me on this one. 😀 :beer:
 
Just think how many girls are out there right now masturbating under the covers alone. At least one of these girls will be a perfect match for you. You will not find her by skulking around longing to relive past memories. The hunt requires a lot of effort; you lose serious points (time) for not participating.
 
Originally posted by: Mik3y
jack off and see if that helps. if not, then you are doomed! doomed i say!!! DOOMED!!! 😀
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LOL, that got a chuckle out of me 🙂.

So does that mean you'll supply him the proper uh.. material? 😉

--GiLtY
 
Originally posted by: clarkey01
Im going to see a doctor.
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that please do. sounds like you might be clinically depressed. medications and therapy can do wonders. good luck.
 
I had some stiff drinks while listening to metallica songs in my study. I woke up this morning to a msg on my phone sayin shes loves me..

Maybe this will pass, Im not known for being a downer, thanks for all the responces Im very greatful.
 
Originally posted by: cmp1223
maybe she broke up with you because you whine and pout too much. Get over it. You want something to really be depressed about? Go lay your head on a hot stove and get back to me.
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STFU troll boy.
 
Hey dude, I just broke up with my gf of 3 years and I know how you feel. We moved out together (both our first times out of mom n dads) and I came home Sunday to an empty apt. I really feel for ya, as I am going through the exact same thing. Working + partying + keeping busy have helped me considerably so far...

:beer:
 
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