Both of you should read page 1 of this thread, esp. The Stilt's posting.
You might not need a package supporting all the features of the server version, but reports indicate that the pin count is the same on both the server and HEDT chips, and shrinking 4,000+ contact pads into a smaller area is no small matter (pun not intended). And while the comparison was made between Socket C32 and Socket G34, the two had different pin-counts; 1207 on the former and 1944 on the latter.
The fact that the pin counts are the same on both versions sounds like the situation will be more comparable to Intel having LGA2011-v3 for its HEDT i7 and 2P Xeon systems, and LGA2011-v2 for 4P+ Xeon systems, with the two being mechanically compatible, but electrically incompatible. That being said, these are just rumours right now, so I wouldn't put it past AMD to come up with something with a pin-count in-between AM4+ and their new server socket.