So many responses to reply to
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To
luvly
Perfect, but there is Mr. Close to Perfect. And that's a man who naturally does these things. I'm not about to try to change a man. I learned long time ago that I couldn't do that. He was set on his ways.
I honestly think it depends because if two people share "true" love for each other, sooner or later the smallest
things in their behavior may change for the better or their SO will broaden his/her SO horizons.
LOL! A lot of people tell me that even in real life. I must be a unique person. Don't worry, when I'm sure of myself, I will not hesitate to invite you all, even those of you who thought I couldn't achieve my goal, to the ceremony. Maybe it'll make news and you can all get to watch.
Thats interesting that other people say the same thing... My question will your head be blurred out ?
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Well, Grasshopper got what I meant, though I'm not frustrated (learned not to be in this regard). The inherent hypocrisy gets to me. And unlike other women, I will not compromise in something of this nature if it means the guy gets no responsibility at all. I was basically being sarcastic there.
Yea I got what you meant but that last remark about the taste of the guy's own medicine threw me off. I was like wth after the sense you made...
And don't worry . . . if I shouldn't find "Mr. Right", I'm prepared to be like some women who are still single, have no kids and have companions at their disposals.
I dont quite share that opinion, if I don't meet the lady thats going to be my future wife I'm not going to settle for someone to be my wife. Thats doing a disjustice to them and to myself. I've had some friends comment on that saying I've got balls. * shurgs * Just my view. I dont think I'll have companions at my disposal like you want
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By the way, I doubt that would happen. I think I've found a potential Mr. Right. I'm still checking him out to be sure. But he's wonderful, not perfect but close enough, so far.
I hope you're not a contestant on Joe Millionaire?
😉 So far? After the lie detector test, manners test, personality compatibility test, music appreciation test, intellect and guile test, blood test screening, and finally the dna sample to make sure he has good genes and no hereditary problems test.
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To
grasshopper26
Naa, she isn't a computer person, she wouldn't find a place like this, much less go searching for it...
Let me ask this whats going to happen when you guys live together? Sooner or later shes going to wonder why you're on anandtech? Or are your posts going to be going down. Also doesnt this count as hiding something from your SO? tsk tsk?
To
Ornery
The first part of your list I agree with. But the second part Im not totally sure cuz the sample seems like they want to warn grasshopper26. But also can you trust all those responses? At any rate if myself and my SO (hypothetically speaking) came to the conclusion that her going on the pill would be the best solution I would definitely make sure to consult a trusted physican to take all the necessarily tests to determine which pill was best for her.
Ultimately though I would never pressure or force her to choose the pill, its her body she
needs to do what she feels is right.
Funny on the further reading, I think I found that book in my dad's study when I was a precocious little tike curiosity about everything and not knowledgeable enough to know
😕 Only now I got reminded of it since you brought it up.
You have much to learn, in the ways of the orgasm, grasshopper...
Whats there to learn after both the male and female learn the all positions, all the possible erogoneous zones on their body and their partner's, learn all the possible hot spots like the G-Spot, learn to control their muscles like the vaginal and penile one. Sorry dont know the official name of that muscle. Also to learn how to have sex so that they are each multi-orgasmic. And finally when the guy goes tantric(which takes a ton of practice I might add), I guess maybe the gal can too? I guess with a lot of body control just like the guy. What am I missing?
To
GirlFriday
Any woman, who takes the pill simply because her man tells her too, has no brain of her own, and unless she is being beaten into it, I have no pity for her. I don't care how lazy a man is, if I require a condom, and he won't wear one? He ain't getting any, simple enough. And I am sure that is how most women are nowadays, most of us take the pill for our own reasons, not simply because our men are lazy.
True... I demand my SO to have a brain of her own
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To
Migroo
My take is this: I have never insisted or pressured my girlfriend to take 'the pill'. I use a condom (and she uses a spermicide etc). If we want better protection then we abstain
Thats rough but I think I could do it, if I was in that position.
