Even as an engineering intern I saw just how counter-productive poor social skills were to my firms ability to fulfill customer requirements.
I know this part comes down to personal opinion, but I think the engineers tend to have better social skills than the people in social sciences, and I'll explain why. Often when I'm dealing with artsy people, they have a really hard time understanding what I'm saying. They honestly cannot tell when I'm joking and when I'm serious. They get offended for no reason at all. They do not pick up on body language or slight changes in my voice that give some hint that I'm making a sarcastic statement.
As a more specific example of this, one of my friends who reads this forum does not like Nick1985. She thinks he's a hardcore asshole. She's an artsy person, and like many other artsy people, she can't take a joke or even tell that a person is joking. I think Nick is funny as hell. Even thought I disagree with him on almost everything, I enjoy reading his posts. He makes me laugh, and I think he effectively puts across his opinions by posting slightly offensive things and making hilarious strawman arguments that have some truth to them.
Another dynamic that works really well is engineers with other engineers. I had an interview at one engineering firm where I asked the department manager how long the average retention time was for new employees. His exact response was "they work here until they die." Such a short statement, but it answers my question. I know a lot of artsy people who would get offended by that because they don't understand what it means.
The combination that seems to work the worst is trying to get artsy people to work with other artsy people. There's always so much pointless drama caused by nothing. They'll stop talking to each other just because one person has nicer shoes. It's impossible to get any work done because there's so much bullshit going on. Did you ever see that season of Survivor where it was men vs women? Did you notice how the men could effectively work together while the women were always fighting with each other? Most engineers are men and most social scientists are women, so interpret that any way you'd like.
My opinion is biased because I'm an engineer who gets along really well with other engineers, and I tend to like artsy people as well, but artsy people are constantly offended by everything I say.
College rewards those who invest themselves in it and maximize their opportunities. You need to be proactive, it's unrealistic to sit back and expect a professor to hand you a letter of recommendation or hook you up with a job interview. If all you did was look on a job board for postings, then I am not surprised that you struggled to find a position
When did I say we had a hard time getting jobs? I was hired as a drug analyst about 1 month after graduating from chemistry. Lots of people had jobs before they graduated.
Why isn't [broader view of society] happening in high school? Maybe we should fix that first.
It
does happen in high school. High school is very broad and it covers a lot of topics. The topics that are covered are also looked at from different perspectives. High school was great.
I took a really broad range of courses in high school. We had an entire class dedicated to psychology. We studied parts of sociology and history in Social Studies class. In English class we would read books written last century in plain English, crap books written by Shakespeare in funky English, and we would write short reports about how events in the books are similar to other things we've seen in real life or in other books or TV shows. We would debate modern political problems in Social Studies class. I remember one debate was about whether or not world war 2 was a good thing. I picked the side saying WW2 was good because that side didn't have as many people. I also remember writing a report in grade 11 Social Studies about how the treaty of versailles was wrong because it was the allies who initially started world war 1 through an act of terrorism. Because I attended a Catholic school, the physics teacher explained to us how everything was once explained as "it moves that way because God wants it to move that way" (gravitation, EM force, etc); I thought that was an interesting way of seeing physics. My grade 11 chemistry class had field trips to a local university and a local community college where we synthesized acetylsalicylic acid, nylon, and a type of rigid plastic that I can't remember the name of. In grade 12 our chemistry class had a field trip to the tar sands in northern Alberta. We got to tour the Syncrude plant, walk through the chem lab, take pictures of sulfur mountain, get a closer look at the extraction equipment, etc. My grade 12 physics class had a field trip to the local university where we did spectroscopy analysis of hydrogen to show that it did indeed absorb light at very specific wavelengths that corresponded to the electron jumps between orbitals.
If your perspective isn't already broad by the time you finish high school, then your school just sucked.
I sometimes dropped in for lectures in other "bullshit" classes that I wasn't enrolled in just to broaden my world. Good times. One of the perks I chalk up to jobs in cities with prominent universities is the opportunity to pop in on distinguished lecturers.
I've done this before. My best friend is 2 years older than me, and he was in second year chemistry when I was in grade 12. There were a few days when I had no school for some reason, but my friend did. I would go to university with him and sit in his chemistry lectures. There are so many people in the room that nobody realizes you don't belong there
