The email from the girl I just broke up with!

[chuckywang]

She seems to be like "yeah, this is how I feel, and I don't really care what you do. It won't affect me in the least." That's pretty condescending.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: rhino56
she sounds stupid. does she ever clean the lint screen?

Nope!

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: eakers
Aubrey is a boys name

it is? i've never met a guy named aubrey

I never met anyone named aubrey. I'd just assumed she'd spelled her own name wrong.

 

[thecrecarc]

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha

Originally posted by: Eghck
"i know your life is confusing right now, and you can do whatever it is you need to do. I personally think it would be easier if i helped you do it"

I would think about that statement and decide if you felt the same way or not. As for all the, "Really, in the end, it makes no difference to me", "I don't need you" statements, I call BS, its obvious she cares. Respond only if you can keep it mature and something you won't regret later on...

Oh I have no problem keeping it mature. I never blew up on her at all. The only thing thats immature is me show everyone this. That was the only immature part I've had with this whole thing. I'm calm and a bit nervous on what to do next as I really wanna respond with something like "I care about you but as much as I will miss you I need sometime with myself" I do care for her but right now or maybe never she doesn't seem like "The One" I know its corny but I believe in something along those lines. Not like there only one person for me but a select few that will really make my life amazing. After about a year I didn't feel a strong connection with her. I know I should have ended it then.

BTW did I mention she gets very attacted and comfortable with several things. Once that happens she barely does anything different unless I tried to push her and then i get bitched at (sometimes)

ditch her

 

[Kadarin]

From the letter:

Third, there were things that you said that you were right about. I am a mess, and i know that, and i'm the first to admit it. I'm not happy with it myself. So therefore, to prove to myself that i could, i cleaned my room. It's practically done.

Damn, this woman is amazing. She cleaned her room, and it's practically done!

She's a keeper. You should get back together with her. Now.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: sygyzy

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: sygyzy
Completely not joking. That name is beautiful. Any guy with the name Aubrey should be shot. And it was indeed a well written letter, though I felt it was a little passive aggressive.

I think it was passive agressive as well but that is what stops me. Part of being mature or having the ability to solve problems is to go in putting pride aside. She sounds like she has pride issues, hence the "I don't need you" "I really don't care" comments. Why even mention that?

I agree. At this point in my life, I am getting very annoyed at people who need to have the last word or throw in little jabs.

Idc about the jabs although annoying. Remember I never let her say a word on the phone though when I broke up with her. If you are mad cause I did it over the phone, read my other threads. I did want to hear everything she had to say just not then and there. So Idk, this is why I want to respond with my tiny answer above.

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: bR

First off, i miss you.

Second off, I don't need you.

lol

i thought the same thing :laugh:

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha

Originally posted by: pontifex
eh, why do we care again?
do you have pics? although, based on that email, i'm kinda scared to see what she looks like

Dude! read begining of topic! and you find your damn pics.

oh, you mean the one i had to dig through several pages worth of posts to find?

Yup, sorry to be a RICHARD but it wasn't that difficult to look for it and I already mentioned that if you wanted it you could find it. I don't feel like posting it again. Ight?!

 

[IlllI]

here is another thought i had. she probably only misses you b/c she misses having someone to manipulate all the time. i would not go back to her. that would be a mistake. i think that would play into her ego. that would put her back into a position of power. if she wants you back, so badly, let her come to you. i personally would just cut my losses and move ahead and just chalk all of this up to experience learned.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: eakers
Aubrey is a boys name

it is? i've never met a guy named aubrey

I never met anyone named aubrey. I'd just assumed she'd spelled her own name wrong.

There is a baseball player for the Major Leagues named Aubrey. Forget his last name. And I have a hot girl in my Chem121 class named Aubrey. Big Melons if you know what I mean. *Immaturity kicks in now............../end immaturity

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
From the letter:

Third, there were things that you said that you were right about. I am a mess, and i know that, and i'm the first to admit it. I'm not happy with it myself. So therefore, to prove to myself that i could, i cleaned my room. It's practically done.

Damn, this woman is amazing. She cleaned her room, and it's practically done!

She's a keeper. You should get back together with her. Now.

YEAH THAT'll BE GOOD FOR A WEEK!

 

[PingSpike]

Was that picture taken while she was writing this letter. Because it sure looks like it.

If her big accomplishment to brag about is that she cleaned her room, well I don't know what you're waiting for! I mean...its not everyday you find a woman that is capable of partially washing her own clothes...when forced too.

Tell her if she installs a glory hole in her apartment door you'll be happy to stop by occasionally for a quick BJ, and thats your final offer.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: skunkbuster
here is another thought i had. she probably only misses you b/c she misses having someone to manipulate all the time. i would not go back to her. that would be a mistake. i think that would play into her ego. that would put her back into a position of power. if she wants you back, so badly, let her come to you. i personally would just cut my losses and move ahead and just chalk all of this up to experience learned.

You're one smart fish!

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: PingSpike
Was that picture taken while she was writing this letter. Because it sure looks like it.

If her big accomplishment to brag about is that she cleaned her room, well I don't know what you're waiting for! I mean...its not everyday you find a woman that is capable of partially washing her own clothes...when forced too.

Tell her if she installs a glory hole in her apartment door you'll be happy to stop by occasionally for a quick BJ, and thats your final offer.

bwbwhahahahaha bwhahhahahah I'm in tears!!! hahahaha omfG!

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

I get more votes to respond?! I thought this forum was all about ZCP?.....

 

[sygyzy]

What's with you and ZCP? Did you just make up that term? I've never haerd of it before and you keep repeating it over and over.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: sygyzy
What's with you and ZCP? Did you just make up that term? I've never haerd of it before and you keep repeating it over and over.

Zero contact policy brought up in many relationship threads. I think its the best thing ever but its really hard to do.........sigh

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

What'd this die as soon as the Mod took the email away? People love the drama don't they?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
What'd this die as soon as the Mod took the email away? People love the drama don't they?

not sure why this thread even began.
its pretty obvious that the girl is a worthless, lazy, dirty freak. just stay away from her.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
What'd this die as soon as the Mod took the email away? People love the drama don't they?

not sure why this thread even began.
its pretty obvious that the girl is a worthless, lazy, dirty freak. just stay away from her.

Did you type with tention in your fingers or was it only I lashed out at you? I said I didn't mean too... Yes and your right. I think I'm done I just wish I could respond with something.

 

[Skunkwourk]

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
What'd this die as soon as the Mod took the email away? People love the drama don't they?

not sure why this thread even began.
its pretty obvious that the girl is a worthless, lazy, dirty freak. just stay away from her.

Did you type with tention in your fingers or was it only I lashed out at you? I said I didn't mean too... Yes and your right. I think I'm done I just wish I could respond with something.

Just tell her that you realized she wasn't happy with herself (since she wrote it in her email) but that you can't work on your happiness and hers at the same time.

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

Originally posted by: Eghck

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
What'd this die as soon as the Mod took the email away? People love the drama don't they?

not sure why this thread even began.
its pretty obvious that the girl is a worthless, lazy, dirty freak. just stay away from her.

Did you type with tention in your fingers or was it only I lashed out at you? I said I didn't mean too... Yes and your right. I think I'm done I just wish I could respond with something.

Just tell her that you realized she wasn't happy with herself (since she wrote it in her email) but that you can't work on your happiness and hers at the same time.

Nice, I may do that.

 

[Kadarin]

Responding by posting a private correspondence on a public forum is uncouth and inappropriate.

Show some respect and maturity

Mod

Since when has email ever been considered "private correspondence"? It is sent unencrypted, and passes through a number of email servers before reaching its destination. It gets used in court all the time...

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The lady intended the correspondence to the original poster, not to be spread around the world. And we shall respect such intentions.

Mod

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Responding by posting a private correspondence on a public forum is uncouth and inappropriate.

Show some respect and maturity

Mod

Since when has email ever been considered "private correspondence"? It is sent unencrypted, and passes through a number of email servers before reaching its destination. It gets used in court all the time...

um, basically because its not intended for other people to read it on the way there?
how can you be a lifer and be that dumb?

 

[imported_Fatbuddha]

I know this is a stupid question and I'm going to get burned but here goes.... I Definately want the friends thing with her in the future. She is a cool girl to hang with but I don't want her as a girlfriend now. In this case, what do I do?