The email from the girl I just broke up with!

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Dec 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: paulney
Originally posted by: sygyzy
That's a hot name and a well written letter. I think you should get back with her.

Ladies! This is how important proper spelling is. Write a nicely worded and properly spelled letter full of sh!t, and you'll get back your man in no time.

HAAHHHA nice cause that's how I'm feeling right now. Well not go crawling back but eager to respond like no other.
 

pontifex

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eh, why do we care again?
do you have pics? although, based on that email, i'm kinda scared to see what she looks like
 

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Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: paulney
Originally posted by: sygyzy
That's a hot name and a well written letter. I think you should get back with her.

Ladies! This is how important proper spelling is. Write a nicely worded and properly spelled letter full of sh!t, and you'll get back your man in no time.

HAAHHHA nice cause that's how I'm feeling right now. Well not go crawling back but eager to respond like no other.
don't do it. not even to be vindictive, not even to say "yea, i read your email." nothing. go have your fun.
 

pikachu656

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"Really, in the end, it makes no difference to me. I'm (stupidly) willing to try again, but i'm not going to wait around. I'm getting out there, and while i'm not looking to meet anyone else, it's bound to happen. So, if you get your ****** worked out, then let me know. Maybe i'll still be here for you, maybe i won't. Either way, i'll be fine. I sincerely hope you will be too."

Forget her. Your better off without her. She's "stupidly willing to try again", which usually means in a few months she'll finally come around and leave you again and you'll be bummed again. Save yourself the hassle and move on. As other people have said "there are plenty of fish in the sea".
 
Dec 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: pontifex
eh, why do we care again?
do you have pics? although, based on that email, i'm kinda scared to see what she looks like

Dude! read begining of topic! and you find your damn pics.
 
Dec 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: crazySOB297
I say give it a foew more days.

I'm down with both above posts. You guys made it so much easier. And for the love of God or whoever you believe in, I know my spelling, grammar, and other parts of english stink. Just keep reminding me and I'll hopefully change :p
 

IlllI

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run Fatbuddha. run. and dont look back.

this is all just a ruse to lure you back and then will make you her man-slave again.

a tiger cant change it's stripes. it might seem to work for a little while but then very soon things will be back to how they used to be


 
Dec 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: skunkbuster
run Fatbuddha. run. and dont look back.

this is all just a ruse to lure you back and then will make you her man-slave again.

a tiger cant change it's stripes. it might seem to work for a little while but then very soon things will be back to how they used to be

That's what happened last time, but hse never gave me a chance to explain myself like this cause I domminated the conversation to get out what I needed to.
 

sygyzy

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Completely not joking. That name is beautiful. Any guy with the name Aubrey should be shot. And it was indeed a well written letter, though I felt it was a little passive aggressive.
 

Skunkwourk

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"i know your life is confusing right now, and you can do whatever it is you need to do. I personally think it would be easier if i helped you do it"

I would think about that statement and decide if you felt the same way or not. As for all the, "Really, in the end, it makes no difference to me", "I don't need you" statements, I call BS, its obvious she cares. Respond only if you can keep it mature and something you won't regret later on...
 

Skunkwourk

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Originally posted by: sygyzy
Completely not joking. That name is beautiful. Any guy with the name Aubrey should be shot. And it was indeed a well written letter, though I felt it was a little passive aggressive.

I think it was passive agressive as well but that is what stops me. Part of being mature or having the ability to solve problems is to go in putting pride aside. She sounds like she has pride issues, hence the "I don't need you" "I really don't care" comments. Why even mention that?
 

Dacalo

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The tone of the letter has desparation all over it. She wants you back, now.

The choice is up to you though, no matter how much we read about your experiences with her, we will never get the full picture.
 

sygyzy

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Originally posted by: Eghck
Originally posted by: sygyzy
Completely not joking. That name is beautiful. Any guy with the name Aubrey should be shot. And it was indeed a well written letter, though I felt it was a little passive aggressive.

I think it was passive agressive as well but that is what stops me. Part of being mature or having the ability to solve problems is to go in putting pride aside. She sounds like she has pride issues, hence the "I don't need you" "I really don't care" comments. Why even mention that?

I agree. At this point in my life, I am getting very annoyed at people who need to have the last word or throw in little jabs.
 

IlllI

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Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: skunkbuster
run Fatbuddha. run. and dont look back.

this is all just a ruse to lure you back and then will make you her man-slave again.

a tiger cant change it's stripes. it might seem to work for a little while but then very soon things will be back to how they used to be

That's what happened last time, but hse never gave me a chance to explain myself like this cause I domminated the conversation to get out what I needed to.




sorry to say, but if it happened the last time? it _will_ most probably happen again. do you really want to put yourself through all that again?



 

pontifex

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Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: pontifex
eh, why do we care again?
do you have pics? although, based on that email, i'm kinda scared to see what she looks like

Dude! read begining of topic! and you find your damn pics.

oh, you mean the one i had to dig through several pages worth of posts to find?
 
Dec 18, 2004
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Originally posted by: Eghck
"i know your life is confusing right now, and you can do whatever it is you need to do. I personally think it would be easier if i helped you do it"

I would think about that statement and decide if you felt the same way or not. As for all the, "Really, in the end, it makes no difference to me", "I don't need you" statements, I call BS, its obvious she cares. Respond only if you can keep it mature and something you won't regret later on...


Oh I have no problem keeping it mature. I never blew up on her at all. The only thing thats immature is me show everyone this. That was the only immature part I've had with this whole thing. I'm calm and a bit nervous on what to do next as I really wanna respond with something like "I care about you but as much as I will miss you I need sometime with myself" I do care for her but right now or maybe never she doesn't seem like "The One" I know its corny but I believe in something along those lines. Not like there only one person for me but a select few that will really make my life amazing. After about a year I didn't feel a strong connection with her. I know I should have ended it then.

BTW did I mention she gets very attacted and comfortable with several things. Once that happens she barely does anything different unless I tried to push her and then i get bitched at (sometimes)