Piano Man: "So muslim rage is due to themselves? Riiiiiight."
AmusedOne: "Why not? Is not the hate of a racist do to his own failures in life? Do not the KKK and Aryan Nations blame everyone else but themselves for their own problems?"
Both points are valid. If somebody pokes you in the nose over and over again, you will eventually become enraged. Everybody learded rage from things that happened to them in their lives. Rage should perhaps be seen as an adaptive strategy to release enough hormones and neurochemicals into our systems as is necessarey to activate a berserker mode with all that implies. The trouble is, most of us learn unconsciously and have no control over how we respond. So as adults when we run into the same stimuli that set us off long ago we go off again even though doing so may be totally inappropriate. To be humiliated over and over causes rage. Anybody who has listened to Palestinian's talk knows that they feel that Israelis humiliate them. It's what people do t people they don't like. It's what happened to them.
By the same token, there is nothing wrong with anybody accept that they think there is. Nobody has a right to respond with violence to being humiliated. being told that you are worthless and internalizing it leads to actions that confirm the feeling. People with exceptionally bad self esteem act those feelings out through self distruction. In the process they hate everything, the whole world, and they have nothing really to blame but that they believe what they fear and try to deny, that they are no good.
Anyway, Hope this makes some sense. falling asleep.