I feel for you man but I sense a lot of grudges between the two of you.
The bitterness comes from men and women being held to a different standard of responsibility.
Why should the state be burdened with providing for the children? Shouldn't both parents take that responsibility rather then the state?
If the father has to pay child support and provide health insurance, shouldn't the mother be held to that same level of responsibility?
This planned parenthood issue, its just another scapegoat for mothers who do not want to provide for their children. And its BS.
Mom pops a kid out, then she says I need food stamps, welfare, free health care,,,. No, what you need is to be held to the same level of responsibility as the father. If the father has to get a job, then so should the mother.
If the parents were forced to take responsibility for their actions, then the people might be more careful.
When there are no repercussions for your actions, what is the deterrent?
Whether its welfare or funding abortions, why is the state responsible?