However it was Sandy who brought a MASSIVE revamp. Nehalem was good due HT and the native Quad Core, however the improvement weren't as abyssmal than Nehalem to Sandy.
You are forgetting that you are comparing a two generations jump because between Nehalen and Sandy Bridge we had Westmere. If we allow Nehalen the same courtesy then you would have to compare it against Conroe Xeon.
The native quad-core was less of an issue at the time in terms of performance than. The issue with Intel MCM FSB quad cores was that you could synchronize the first and the second thread very quickly but the third and the fourth would have to be synchronized via FSB, so in effect your quad-core server would be no faster than a 2P with 2 dual core processors, e.g., a problem already known for the software industry. On 4P and 8P servers the Caneland platform also made available a point-to-point link with the full bandwidth of the FSB of the platform, so no news here too.
And how did FSB fare in real life? IIRC up to four cores thread sync occurred as fast in AMD native quad-cores, only when going beyond that the FSB started to show its age. This is why partners like Cray stayed with AMD even after AMD was outclassed with Conroe.
In terms of relevancy I think Sandy Bridge-EP was a very interesting product, it was undisputed the king of the hill in every single scenario you could think of, but it didn't bring revolutionary changes to the platforms like Nehalen, and it didn't that much change in terms of TCO as Ivy Bridge-EP did. IVB-EP and EX caused a big splash on the markets because the economics were so much better than previous processors that 2P processors cannibalized a lot of share of 4P servers and 4P servers cannibalized a lot of share of big iron servers.