BoberFett
Lifer
- Oct 9, 1999
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<< Your point about his not having sex and therefore not having to take the responsibility for fathering a child was almost a valid point for me, until I read your next post. In that one you did have sex and your ex-girlfriend " got pregnant". How come it's always, she got pregnant, instead of, he got her pregnant? >>
You're argung semantics, which never leads anywhere.
<< Anyway, you did have sex and a pregnancy resulted. You've fathered a child and you don't want to take any responsibility for it. I can understand not wanting the financial burden, but how can you talk as if it's all her fault that you're going to have to take on this responsibility? How can you blame the court system for this? >>
Having sex and getting pregnant due to carelessness is equal blame on both parties. I'm 50% at fault as is my ex. The problem is that once that part is finished, a man has no rights. I wanted her to get an abortion, she didn't want to. I can't force her to get an abortion but she can force me to pay child support. That's where the system is to blame. The state will take money from my paycheck for the next twenty years and I can't do a thing about it.
<< I can understand your anger at the situation, but don't you wonder just a little bit about what this child might be like someday? >>
No.
<< Don't you think that there's any possibility that this child could be someone you could be proud of someday? >>
No.
<< Someone who would love you and bring happiness into your life? >>
No.
Does that about cover it?
<< And I've got to ask about this one thing you said:
<< And some people still think men run the show? If that was the case, this wouldn't be happening. >>
What wouldn't be happening? >>
This guy in Sweden paying child support to a lesbian that he donated sperm to and me paying child support for a child I don't want.