This is relatively an ignorant and small-minded thing to say. While obviously budgets and congressional issues are always at stake, not to mention keeping the Pentagon interested, the sort of scientific and engineering development that goes into developing, testing, and manufacturing these types of airframes are crazy useful for society at large. Not only does the Pentagon (i.e. some "fighter jocks") as well as some congressmen get funding for manufacturing in their districts, the research of technology benefits universities and private industries which translates into technology that can be substituted into private sector research.
In a sense when looking at Defense spending, it may be suited to not only look at the end product (e.g. F-22) but look at the process and realize the benefit that society gets from such research. Think about that the next time you use your GPS app on your smartphone.
To think otherwise is, simply put, very ignorant and the opinion of an uneducated person.