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ValkyrieofHouston

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Sep 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: RichardE

Single male, age 13

I know what I am doing. Annette found out. Ask Cara. I love you all.

Bill




.so young :(
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Yea, that one breaks my heart. Those suicide notes are all very sad. It's like taking a little glimpse inside each persons head at their very last moment in life. All of them have so much pain.
 

ValkyrieofHouston

Golden Member
Sep 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: eits
when you've attempted suicide and realize that you're basically attempting to murder someone at least one person cares about deeply, you realize that it's somewhat out of place to feel bad for suicide victims. instead, you feel bad for those who loved the person the victim murdered.


I feel bad for both the suicide victim and their loved ones. I can understand the anger that a loved one would feel toward the one they loved that died in this way... but I could never have a lack of compassion or understanding toward the suicide victim. They are in a whirlwind of pain up until the day they die. Their mind just snaps...

People just don't get that..
 

JS80

Lifer
Oct 24, 2005
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Originally posted by: Single male, age 13
I know what I am doing. Annette found out. Ask Cara. I love you all.

Bill

Does that mean Annette found out he was gay?
 

Accipiter22

Banned
Feb 11, 2005
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Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Football Season is Over

No More Games. No More Bombs. No More Walking. No More Fun. No More Swimming. 67. That is 17 years past 50. 17 more than I needed or wanted. Boring. I am always bitchy. No Fun?for anybody. 67. You are getting Greedy. Act your old age. Relax?This won't hurt.

Hunter S
 

Accipiter22

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Feb 11, 2005
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I would feel sooooooooooo wretched for even attempting to commit suicide. There's so many beautiful things in life, and I would/could NEVER put my mom through that after how hard she's fought to give me a good life
 

Chiller2

Senior member
Aug 19, 2005
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Married male, age 45

My darling,

May her guts rot in hell -- I loved her so much.

Henry



my favorite
 

Ramma2

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Jul 29, 2002
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How could a person with children do this to them. I could never do something so selfish as to cause my son a lifetime of pain by doing something like this. Cowards, every last one of them.
 

MichaelD

Lifer
Jan 16, 2001
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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Another string of victories for Darwin, each with its own distinct Fatality move. :D

- M4H

[Mortal Kombat Announcer Voice] Fatality! [\Mortal Kombat Announcer Voice]
 

middlehead

Diamond Member
Jul 11, 2004
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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Another string of victories for Darwin, each with its own distinct Fatality move. :D

- M4H
:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:
 
Aug 23, 2000
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Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Another string of victories for Darwin, each with its own distinct Fatality move. :D

- M4H

[Mortal Kombat Announcer Voice] Fatality! [\Mortal Kombat Announcer Voice]


If one of these people jumped in a bear or tiger cage and was killed, would it be an Animality?
 

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
I would feel sooooooooooo wretched for even attempting to commit suicide. There's so many beautiful things in life, and I would/could NEVER put my mom through that after how hard she's fought to give me a good life

I wouldn't. I am not suicidal or depressed, but I could do it if the need arose.
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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this one seems really sad to me

"Cathy -- don't come in.

Call your mother, she will know what to do.

Love

Daddy

Cathy don't go in the bedroom."

that was at the end of the letter, after the PS

 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: pontifex
this one seems really sad to me

"Cathy -- don't come in.

Call your mother, she will know what to do.

Love

Daddy

Cathy don't go in the bedroom."

that was at the end of the letter, after the PS
it is sad that the selfish bastard didn't care about anyone but himself.

 

aidanjm

Lifer
Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Another string of victories for Darwin, each with its own distinct Fatality move. :D

- M4H

Many of those people spoke of their children, i.e., they have reproduced. I.e., their genes remain in circulation.

Are you too stupid to understand this?
 

eits

Lifer
Jun 4, 2005
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: pontifex
this one seems really sad to me

"Cathy -- don't come in.

Call your mother, she will know what to do.

Love

Daddy

Cathy don't go in the bedroom."

that was at the end of the letter, after the PS
it is sad that the selfish bastard didn't care about anyone but himself.

agreed.
 

CVSiN

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Jul 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Another string of victories for Darwin, each with its own distinct Fatality move. :D

- M4H

bwahahhahahahahahaahahaha
 

eits

Lifer
Jun 4, 2005
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Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: eits
when you've attempted suicide and realize that you're basically attempting to murder someone at least one person cares about deeply, you realize that it's somewhat out of place to feel bad for suicide victims. instead, you feel bad for those who loved the person the victim murdered.


I feel bad for both the suicide victim and their loved ones. I can understand the anger that a loved one would feel toward the one they loved that died in this way... but I could never have a lack of compassion or understanding toward the suicide victim. They are in a whirlwind of pain up until the day they die. Their mind just snaps...

People just don't get that..

whatever. most suicide victims are looking for the ultimate pity party. why should their loved ones have to be put through that? it's so selfish.

i'll never forget the look on my dad's face whenever he found out that i tried killing myself that one night... he wouldn't talk to me for almost a month. he couldn't even look at me... everytime he tried, he'd hide his face or walk away and i could see his lip start to quiver.
 

ValkyrieofHouston

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Sep 26, 2005
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Originally posted by: eits
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: eits
when you've attempted suicide and realize that you're basically attempting to murder someone at least one person cares about deeply, you realize that it's somewhat out of place to feel bad for suicide victims. instead, you feel bad for those who loved the person the victim murdered.


I feel bad for both the suicide victim and their loved ones. I can understand the anger that a loved one would feel toward the one they loved that died in this way... but I could never have a lack of compassion or understanding toward the suicide victim. They are in a whirlwind of pain up until the day they die. Their mind just snaps...

People just don't get that..

whatever. most suicide victims are looking for the ultimate pity party. why should their loved ones have to be put through that? it's so selfish.

i'll never forget the look on my dad's face whenever he found out that i tried killing myself that one night... he wouldn't talk to me for almost a month. he couldn't even look at me... everytime he tried, he'd hide his face or walk away and i could see his lip start to quiver.


The ones that are looking for "the pity party" as you so aptly put it, are the ones who don't commit suicide, they are the ones who fain the attempt in an effort to gain attention from others as a way of crying out for help. That does not mean that they are not themselves in a great deal of pain and emotional distress. What ever lead you to the point of wanting to hurt yourself or contemplate suicide I would not assume was for the sake of a "pity party", but because you were needing help. It is ashame that your Dad treated you that way. I'm sure he felt some anger, but by not acknowledging your problems and emotional distress and ignoring you afterwards I don't think helps anyone. Do you think it helped you? I sure hope that you and your family got some much needed help.
 

eits

Lifer
Jun 4, 2005
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Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: eits
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: eits
when you've attempted suicide and realize that you're basically attempting to murder someone at least one person cares about deeply, you realize that it's somewhat out of place to feel bad for suicide victims. instead, you feel bad for those who loved the person the victim murdered.


I feel bad for both the suicide victim and their loved ones. I can understand the anger that a loved one would feel toward the one they loved that died in this way... but I could never have a lack of compassion or understanding toward the suicide victim. They are in a whirlwind of pain up until the day they die. Their mind just snaps...

People just don't get that..

whatever. most suicide victims are looking for the ultimate pity party. why should their loved ones have to be put through that? it's so selfish.

i'll never forget the look on my dad's face whenever he found out that i tried killing myself that one night... he wouldn't talk to me for almost a month. he couldn't even look at me... everytime he tried, he'd hide his face or walk away and i could see his lip start to quiver.


The ones that are looking for "the pity party" as you so aptly put it, are the ones who don't commit suicide, they are the ones who fain the attempt in an effort to gain attention from others as a way of crying out for help. That does not mean that they are not themselves in a great deal of pain and emotional distress. What ever lead you to the point of wanting to hurt yourself or contemplate suicide I would not assume was for the sake of a "pity party", but because you were needing help. It is ashame that your Dad treated you that way. I'm sure he felt some anger, but by not acknowledging your problems and emotional distress and ignoring you afterwards I don't think helps anyone. Do you think it helped you? I sure hope that you and your family got some much needed help.

i don't blame my dad for treating me the way he did... i almost killed the person he loved most in the world. i'd probably avoid looking at me, too, if i were in his shoes.

i still think that most suicide victims do it because they think that the only way they'll get the love and attention they deserve is at their funeral (ultimate pity party). the sad thing is that a lot of them try to get help and are, unfortunately, put on bullshite drugs like paxil. there needs to be more emphasis on therapy and less emphasis on drugs... but not one or the other. in this day and age, there's more of an emphasis on drugs and less on therapy... and unfortunately, some of the drugs out there catapult people into suicide (i.e. paxil).
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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I always thought suicide was a selfish way to solve one's OWN problems while saying a big fVck you to everyone who loved them... now I'm at least 75% sure of it.

The fact that some of these people wrote a suicide note at all tells you... "I got the last word in too."
 

JDrake

Banned
Dec 27, 2005
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Haha it's missing that gay kid's note on posted it in his blog
that troll
what was his name
 

waggy

No Lifer
Dec 14, 2000
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Originally posted by: rh71
I always thought suicide was a selfish way to solve one's OWN problems while saying a big fVck you to everyone who loved them... now I'm at least 75% sure of it.

The fact that some of these people wrote a suicide note at all tells you... "I got the last word in too."

agreed.

some you can tell they are to weak to continue. hell has a special place reserved for them.