Originally posted by: eits
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: eits
when you've attempted suicide and realize that you're basically attempting to murder someone at least one person cares about deeply, you realize that it's somewhat out of place to feel bad for suicide victims. instead, you feel bad for those who loved the person the victim murdered.
I feel bad for both the suicide victim and their loved ones. I can understand the anger that a loved one would feel toward the one they loved that died in this way... but I could never have a lack of compassion or understanding toward the suicide victim. They are in a whirlwind of pain up until the day they die. Their mind just snaps...
People just don't get that..
whatever. most suicide victims are looking for the ultimate pity party. why should their loved ones have to be put through that? it's so selfish.
i'll never forget the look on my dad's face whenever he found out that i tried killing myself that one night... he wouldn't talk to me for almost a month. he couldn't even look at me... everytime he tried, he'd hide his face or walk away and i could see his lip start to quiver.