You really are clueless about how this works out here in the real world.
In the real world the programs you are beating your chest about have gotten so bad that 2 generations of children in some family no nothing other than being dirt poor living in government provided SLUMS that I wouldn't let my dog sleep in and the really sad part is, the next generation will almost certainly be the same. A large portion of young adults, now parents, haven't been more than a few miles from the crime and drug infested, disgustingly falling apart slum you so graciously allow them to live in. They literally do not know any other way and in most cases, their children won't either. They will have children of their own at 15 or 16, in which partly due to your oh so gracious programs the father will almost certainly not be involved, and those children will likely repeat the cycle.
What you call "help" I call a horrendous crime against generations of children, most of whom will never even have the opportunity (or never realize they have the opportunity which has the same affect) to get out of the hell hole you call "help".
I'll offer you the same invitation I offered Craig, come on down if you don't believe me. I will take a vacation day and spend the entire day taking you on tours of the oh so gracious government help that you are advocating. You would have to be a truly sick individual to still think you are helping those people at the end of the day.
Furthermore, most of the Democratic leadership knows the above quite well. The truth of the matter is, they don't give a shit about those people either as long as they vote for the right letter behind the name. So don't sit here and pretend that the left is actually trying to help them when in fact they are doing more damage then good. I am sure the right would do exactly the same given the opportunity but currently they aren't the ones pissing on the poor peoples heads and telling them its raining.
-And as I said earlier, I am not advocating "fuck the poor, let em starve" or any other extreme viewpoint. I advocating a rational debate on a system that gives incentives to people trying to their self instead of our current system that punishes it and leaving the race card completely out of the discussion. It doesn't help one bit.