I have no idea what you think, just making the point that people have different priorities in life and you coming in here trashing the crossfit thing because it'll make the OP "average" isn't helping anyone.
his attitude and effort will make him average. crossfit is fine. it is all about what you put into it.
He wants to lose weight and get into decent shape and thinks a social atmosphere will help -- and it probably will. The guy could be a chubby Einstein coming in here asking about crossfit to lose 40lbs during his free time when he's not pioneering theoretical physics and you'd tell him he's average
FWIW the only crossfit folks I've come across were super fit, one guy was squatting 3x+ BW and C+J a good 225 at my weight/height (~160 5'10)
Not everyone is going to take things as far as I have, not everyone can. I have been strong. I joke stronger than most will ever even lie about. There is a certain high and appeal to moving big weight. But at the end of the day, I wasn't all that happy with how I looked. and I was really only as good (strong) as my next lift. I have gotten over that and focused on how I look... how I want to look. when youre training and food are consistent, you are going to be healthy, so why even bring it up as being the goal?
whether OP is pioneering new theories, if he his training 3x a week, he could get in better shape than just "not a fat@ss" or "decent" by controlling what he does outside of the gym. that's where the majority of how I look is made. you can say, I don't want a build like yours.... that may be the case, or it may be the case that you aren't willing to do what I do to have a build like this. and that is fine. I also think there is a misconception about how 'big' I am. I was 268 lbs at one point. Carried 235-240 lbs around most of the time, and did it pretty well; even at only 5'8". I am MUCH smaller than I was at that weight. 6" on my waist, 4" on my chest, 1-2 shirt sizes smaller...
how many people in here are 235+? OP is... so why would he want to 'get as big as me'? he wouldn't he would have to get smaller. I had people see me in street clothes and ask me if I had gotten sick because I looked so skinny (compared to what I was) They don't say oh my, he's a freak, no way would I want to look like that. I pose a mirror shot of my arm and people can say gross, or whatever, but that same arm fits comfortably in all my shirts
Rich Fronning has a good build, and there are probably others doing crossfit that do as well. Relatively speaking though, there doesn't seem to be many. when ever I ask xfitters who has a good build in their "sport" they always say rich, maybe I get one or two other names---- that's it. I look at the people I know that do crossfit, and those same people seem to be good at it, yet, they don't look all that good. I have a friend of mine that owns a box in the next town. Same kid that xfit changed his life, lost 60 lbs... and I say jeff, you don't even look like you lift. You are skinnier, but big deal, you physically look like any other guy that isn't fat.... not lean, not muscular. I would expect a chiseled midsection, a little vascularity in the biceps....
I'm ranting and carrying on.... anyways search the net for some good crossfit humor.