I don't think pirating the game is a solution either, that'll just give EA even more reason to bitch about piracy and include even harder DRM or even worse, stop making PC games altogether, and before you cheer, remember EA owns a LOT of incredible developers and franchises (Bioware, Command & Conquer, Crysis, Burnout).
The solution is either not buying the game or buying the game and then putting a crack on it or something, EA probably KNOWS their DRM does nothing but like I, and other poster, said, they do it to keep their shareholders happy, if they didn't put DRM and their games got pirated it would look very bad for them, they are a big corporation, a BUSINESS.
If you pirate the game, you are just making it worse, the guys at Sony and EA are intelligent (yeah, I know you'd all like to think EA is run by chimps but it takes great business skills to be as big as EA is now), they have a big multi-billion company YOU don't for a reason, they know DRM does nothing and pirating the game is NOT going to solve the problem (they know it's going to be pirated).
If you pirate the game you just make it worse, EA will grab the number of Spore torrents downloaded off mininova or something and bitch the hell all about piracy and lost sales even if they had already made 10 times the budget of Spore in profit, why do they do it?
I agree activations are not nice but if you don't like it don't buy the game, just like you wouldn't buy a game because it has a bug or a glitch or something, personally, I don't find them to be enough of a hindrance. Games are not public domain, just because you don't like DRM doesn't mean you should go out and pirate it "to send a message to EA", the real message is not buying the game, pirating it only incentives EA to put stronger DRM.
Gaming as a whole is messed up, if publishers really wanted to have their games completely safe from pirates, they would all release their games exclusively on the PS3, they don't, so that obviously tells you that publishers themselves know piracy is not an issue, that's why more and more games are getting ported to the PC but it just turns out piracy is the perfect scapegoat to use when you want even more money and want a good excuse.
I already said it but I'll say it again, if you don't like the DRM, then don't get the game, don't be as stupid as to think sending an email or pirating the game will "send a message", a single consumer is very very very very insignificant to EA, even if they got hundreds of no DRM mails every day, that's still less than 1% of their possible userbase and seeing 500000 downloaded torrents at a torrent site only spurs the anger of their shareholders even more, thus, bigger DRM.
You gotta understand, EA is not made of gamers who want to provide the best games for gamers, EA is made of businessman and is a big corporation, as such, they need to make the decisions that will keep them afloat.