Schadenfroh
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As do I.
I know a guy who was "nice enough" to let his ex stay in the house with their kid. She was kind enough to bring home a live-in abusive boyfriend, the boyfriend's kid, several dogs and best of all, it fell into disrepair and was a shit hole worth a fraction of its value within a few months and his kid got to live in the filth AND get smacked around by the live-in boyfriend before he finally won full custody.
holy jesus jumping fucking shit
im so glad you called, and can afford, a lawyer. i hope you make the bitch cry at night for months by the time this is all done. and fuck her, dont give her the house, you keep the house, and the kids.
im so glad you called, and can afford, a lawyer. i hope you make the bitch cry at night for months by the time this is all done. and fuck her, dont give her the house, you keep the house, and the kids.
dainthomas
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- Dec 7, 2004
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Why should she? Isn't it patently obvious that the OP wasn't catering to his wife's emotional needs?
- Nov 30, 2005
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Good lord, what a nightmare. I hope it all works out for you.
Things like this is why I never want to re-marry.
KT
Things like this is why I never want to re-marry.
KT
So far nothing is going on. I have called many lawyers and they are all telling me the same thing. So that is good news. She does not even want to speak to me now that she found out the house will not be hers. Found a great house I am putting a bid on today that is like 10sec away from my old house, so that is awesome for seeing the kids. I was really pissed and things at 1st, but now I feel like a weight has been lifted. She started getting into yoga, eating veggie, seeing some weird therapist and shit. Things just got weird. So I am not really shocked this happened, just thought we would tough it out till the kids were older.
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Hate to say it, but possible indicator she was cheating on you? Changes in behaviour like that are usually a good indicator (speaking from experience here). Just wondering because it could help your case.
Cheers and good luck. :beer:
KT
SunnyD
Belgian Waffler
So what we've learned here today:
#1 - You're made of money. Losing a house (and your "inheritance", since you're giving away your house you bought with) is no big deal.
#2 - You have no desire to be a responsible parent. Obviously your wife has mental issues if we've gotten to this point, and with all of the "changes" you've noted here. However you have no desire to remove your children from what will most assuredly be a toxic situation.
#3 - You have no desire to be a parent at all. You're giving your wife everything she needs to live on her own, hence she'll have no difficulty spending time brainwashing your kids to hate you. You're okay with this?
What's sad is in two years once this is "all behind you", you're going to be back posting about your new happiness and love, only to post a year later that you've been suckered YET AGAIN.
I am leaving so she does not leave and take the kids. I know I could go to court and fight for joint or full custody, but I do not want to go that way. I would rather let them stay there, it's their home (the kids) I don't want them to have to leave it. I know how fucked up it was when I was little and my parents divorced and took us away from our house.
I do not think she was cheating. She had a friend that became an instructor and she just got into it with her.
Oh, and what we have really learned today is that SunnyD is fucking tard.
I do not think she was cheating. She had a friend that became an instructor and she just got into it with her.
Oh, and what we have really learned today is that SunnyD is fucking tard.
surfsatwerk
Lifer
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Exact same thing happened in my case. It's like there's something about yoga and being a vegetarian that is appealing to cheating women.
Did you not read a thing? You have every right to kick your wife out of the house while having your kids live in the house.
I would kick her out now...change the locks and move her shit out on the lawn...the kids will adapt to this as divorce is so common nowadays...I speak from experience
I understand this. But why would I not want my kids to be with their mother? I am doing this for my children, for stability in their lives. She is not a nut, we are just different people.
Careful about buying another house unless your lawyer told you it's OK to do so. She can try to go after that as well.
surfsatwerk
Lifer
- Mar 6, 2008
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Yeah but she's trying to suck away your money and your soul. Best defense is a good offense, kick her out and get lawyer'd up.
K1052
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- Aug 21, 2003
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Women are already irrational emotional creatures and you've just given her cause (or she really gave herself cause but anywhoo) to become extremely vindictive.
If you go this route I can guarantee you 100% it will come back and bite you in the ass.
<---another child of divorced parents
The current house is not hers because it was paid for with my $, stock that was left to me in a will. The same will apply for the 2nd home.
SunnyD
Belgian Waffler
I understand exactly what you're saying, I ready your original post. But you're not even putting up a fight! You're walking away. Just because Utah is a mother-friendly state doesn't mean you don't put up a fight. YOU ARE WALKING AWAY. Simply put, you want out but you're not man enough to admit it. You're also not man enough to give a shit about your kids by not fighting for them. You're think trying to be the bigger man, but all you're doing is walking away. You think your wife that currently hates you with the power of the fires of hell is going to let you live it down or let your kids ever forget that you're walking out on them? Honestly? She's past being amicable. She is going to use your children against you for the rest of your life. Have fun getting walked all over for the next, oh... rest of your life.
By the way, I prefer the term "douchenozzle". Thanks.
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