So when did you drop the "L" word to your SO?

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Lola

we had been dating since the middle/end of july.
we went to a Renisannce Festival (he HATED it) in September and got into a fight about it. We were sitting in the dark for a few hours not talking, I whispered it, he said it back, righ away!
That was five years ago. I can even remember what we were wearing that day too! :eek:
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
we had been dating since the middle/end of july.
we went to a Renisannce Festival (he HATED it) in September and got into a fight about it. We were sitting in the dark for a few hours not talking, I whispered it, he said it back, righ away!
That was five years ago. I can even remember what we were wearing that day too! :eek:

So like 2 and half months? I've been seeing someone that long - and I'm thinking about telling them it before I leave to visit my father for Thanksgiving...Hmmmmmmm Scarey :eek:
 

ggnl

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I don't have the reservations about it that a lot of guys seem to have, so I tend to say it just as soon as I think it's true. I guess I'm a lot less commitment-phobic than most guys my age.
 

Pathogen03

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accidentally, about 6 months in...

she got very happy and bouncy, and kept bouncing on my lap :p
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: Ryan
So like 2 and half months? I've been seeing someone that long - and I'm thinking about telling them it before I leave to visit my father for Thanksgiving...Hmmmmmmm Scarey :eek:

Them? That means:
  1. There's more than one of them? :Q or
  2. You're being ambiguous about their sex, so either
    1. You don't think everyone here realizes you're a gay male... that's unpossible! (</ralph> )
    2. It's a woman?! :Q

:p
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Ryan
So like 2 and half months? I've been seeing someone that long - and I'm thinking about telling them it before I leave to visit my father for Thanksgiving...Hmmmmmmm Scarey :eek:

Them? That means:
  1. There's more than one of them? :Q or
  2. You're being ambiguous about their sex, so either
    1. You don't think everyone here realizes you're a gay male... that's unpossible! (</ralph> )
    2. It's a woman?! :Q

:p

Well - I was going for some ambiguity ;)
 

blackdogdeek

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after we woke up in bed one morning at my apartment after dating for 2 to 3 months she told me and i said "baby, you know i love you too".
 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Ryan
So like 2 and half months? I've been seeing someone that long - and I'm thinking about telling them it before I leave to visit my father for Thanksgiving...Hmmmmmmm Scarey :eek:

Them? That means:
  1. There's more than one of them? :Q or
  2. You're being ambiguous about their sex, so either
    1. You don't think everyone here realizes you're a gay male... that's unpossible! (</ralph> )
    2. It's a woman?! :Q

:p

lol...or maybe he was just trying to be discrete so that he won't get bashed for flaunting his sexuality.
 

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: blackdogdeek
after we woke up in bed one morning at my apartment after dating for 2 to 3 months she told me and i said "baby, you know i love you too".

You lose.
 

scorpmatt

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Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Ryan
So like 2 and half months? I've been seeing someone that long - and I'm thinking about telling them it before I leave to visit my father for Thanksgiving...Hmmmmmmm Scarey :eek:

Them? That means:
  1. There's more than one of them? :Q or
  2. You're being ambiguous about their sex, so either
    1. You don't think everyone here realizes you're a gay male... that's unpossible! (</ralph> )
    2. It's a woman?! :Q

:p

Well - I was going for some ambiguity ;)

ambiguously gay duo?
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
we had been dating since the middle/end of july.
we went to a Renisannce Festival (he HATED it) in September and got into a fight about it. We were sitting in the dark for a few hours not talking, I whispered it, he said it back, righ away!
That was five years ago. I can even remember what we were wearing that day too! :eek:

So like 2 and half months? I've been seeing someone that long - and I'm thinking about telling them it before I leave to visit my father for Thanksgiving...Hmmmmmmm Scarey :eek:

I had never said it to anyone else. We were not sleeping together at that point. I would have never said it just because.
I just knew. I didn't even think about what he would say back.
So, go for it, just don't be shocked if they come back with "I Love spending time with you too"! :p
 

sao123

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Hey B1tch... do you do Laundry???

not until the day after we got married... lol
 

djheater

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I find it easy to love, I have a very easy relationship with the word. I think that it's a mistake to only trot it out for display on what you consider special occasions and try to say it as frequently and meaningfully as possible.