Yeah because a woman could never be doing 2 guys at once, her husband/boyfriend by night and the pool boy/gardener by day without the husband/boyfriend knowing about it. . .No way. . .that could never happen.
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Yeah because a woman could never be doing 2 guys at once, her husband/boyfriend by night and the pool boy/gardener by day without the husband/boyfriend knowing about it. . .No way. . .that could never happen.
Pliablemoose
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I have to weigh in, the OP is basically screwed, but to the younger posters...
1.) Don't ever leave a pregnant woman for any length of time, bad form.
2.) Always demand a paternity test, around 20% of children aren't related to the guy they call dad.
3.) Babies are a natural result of sex, you're risking 18+ years of child support every time you get laid.
4.) Women can be ruthless, be careful
5.) ALWAYS get a pre-nup
1.) Don't ever leave a pregnant woman for any length of time, bad form.
2.) Always demand a paternity test, around 20% of children aren't related to the guy they call dad.
3.) Babies are a natural result of sex, you're risking 18+ years of child support every time you get laid.
4.) Women can be ruthless, be careful
5.) ALWAYS get a pre-nup
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lxskllr
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WTH does that mean? I've dated women with children. Once you grow up, you may very well also :^S
SunSamurai
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She's a dumb c-hunt if she can't understand that the OP's father suffered a stroke and needs constant attention. She's pregnant not bleeding from multiple stab wounds.
Having 2 kids myself, all I really did was help in the conception, she took care of the rest until they were born. then I got to share in diaper duty
Youre cool for calling the mother of his kid a wise and beautiful woman. Seriously. Classy.
The only person that has the moral right to say that is the OP, not your stupidass. Him not defending at least the common decency toward the mother of his kid puts question in my mind of what kind of father he'd be and gives slightly more credibility to the mother.
What goes around, comes around.
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tyler811
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Wasn't anything personal guys. It's just a very emotional subject for me right now.
Talked to her on the weekend and expressed that i wanted to be in her life, the baby's life, to start a family and raise our child. She loves me but she wants to do this "on her own", with no help from me whatsoever which includes child support. This is not what i want but i'm not going to fight with her about it. I love her and i told her that i supported her decision and that if the time came that she did want me in her life i'd be waiting.
Do you know yet why she had this seemingly sudden change of heart? I can only imagine how hard this must be for you.
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Pressure from parents i'm assuming. This whole situation sucks but fighting with her about this would only make it worse. I think i'm doing the right thing. It feels like i'm doing the right thing.
nick1985
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1st bolded statement means she is cheating on you. Also, a woman will not pass up free money, so fully expect to pay child support. In fact, count on it.
2nd bolded statement means you are a pushover with no backbone. This update also implies you havent spoken to a lawyer, which furthers my idea that you are a pushover with no backbone.
Wake the fuck up man, this chick is fucking you over so hard and you are too blind to see it. Go stick your head in a toilet and flush it a few times. That might help you
Good luck
tyler811
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For the first ever I agree with with Nick. You have a responsbility to that child. Do not marry her she sounds nuts but IF the child is yours then man up.
nick1985
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Sea Moose
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Must be the economy
could be the hot weather we are having in Australia... yeah, thats it
JoeBleed
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Damn man, did you ask her why she wants to make things difficult with raising the child on "her own"? Pry a little and see if her parents are behind this manipulating her decisions.
I would still consult a lawyer in CA about this and go ahead and set up some kind of a legal agreement on record where you both agree to what ever it is you agree with. But if you don't agree with what she is doing, then don't buckle and go along with it just because you think that is what she wants.
While i had both parents growing up, i've known several people that grew up with one parent or going from one to the other. If i was this child and i found out she did this and you agreed i would be pissed at both of you.
I would still consult a lawyer in CA about this and go ahead and set up some kind of a legal agreement on record where you both agree to what ever it is you agree with. But if you don't agree with what she is doing, then don't buckle and go along with it just because you think that is what she wants.
While i had both parents growing up, i've known several people that grew up with one parent or going from one to the other. If i was this child and i found out she did this and you agreed i would be pissed at both of you.
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