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So...my sister is pregnant

So, 4 years ago my sister started dating a guy. When I first met him he was head to toe Nascar (had, jacket, socks, shoes, sunglasses...etc). Scraggly, ugly, with cigarettes behind his ears. I brought him to a nice steak place where he belched and blew it in my sisters face and even farted at the dinner table.

The next day we went to Epcot, where my sister fell and all he could do was laugh. Later he told her how to spend her money on my niece (they were dating at the time for 2 months).

As the years went by I saw this screwup mature into a fuckup. He's a year older than I am (31), lived at home, worked for his dad, and never earned a paycheck in his life (parents paid for everything). He puts crap in his truck, lights, stereos, and generally acts like an 18yo.

I could put up with all of that, barely.

2 years ago he was at my parents house for my sister's b-day party. My mom went around the house to collect people for dinner. Found my bro and dad outside working on the lawn, found my sister in the computer room, found hee-haw (my name for him after the belching/farting incident), in their living room, staring at his cell phone, jacking off.

Yeah, jacking off in my parent's living room.

2 years go by with the guy being a perennial fuckup. His own dad fired him twice. His boss picks him up for work since he has no car (crashed 2) and can't get up to go to work (lazy POS).

At an amusement park, in front of my brother, he said "Wow, look at all of the hot kitties here" (insert female derogatory comment). He grabbed my SIL's ass at the same park, on the same day, just after grabbing a friend's ass. He showed my brother pr0n on his phone in my dad's hospital room (dad had a heart-attack).

I suspect he may be a Pedo. I cringe every time I see him with my niece and nephew, I am disgusted and worried.

She got married to him this past summer. In every picture I have my lip curled (unconscious response to the disgusting idea this pig is married to my sister).

This fall my parents stayed at their house (bought by his parents), where they found punch holes in the walls. So now I think he's physically abusing her. Her attitude has changed, she used to be somewhat air-head-ish and is now a bitch. She lies all of the time and might be stealing from my brother. She now always wants a free lunch, she complained about an impeccably good dinner at a high-end steak place, getting a $200 gift cert because she complained, nobody else did.

Now, this immature prick, who can't even hold a steady job, paycheck, or be responsible, has gotten my sister pregnant. She's 35, college educated, and has a good job. He barely passed HS.

Why is it that some women pick utter losers? Why does it have to be my very nice sister?

How does somebody deal with this situation?
 
Your sister is responsible. Someone should've had a talking to while they were still dating. How's she feel about being pregnant with his? If she doesn't mind it, I'm not so sure you should care any longer - just cut ties.
 
not much you can do since she seems to adore the ricky bobby fellow. one of the things i fear most about ever having a daughter is having her marry a jabroni like that.
 
Originally posted by: rh71
Your sister is responsible. Someone should've had a talking to while they were still dating. How's she feel about being pregnant with his? If she doesn't mind it, I'm not so sure you should care any longer - just cut ties.

More or less has been my attitude the last year. I just can't take time to really worry about it. While she's an adult, it's still tough to see a sibling do this to their lives.

She's happy.
 
I would have ruined my relationship withe every member of my family and my sister if necessary to chase a piece of shit like this away. It is a little late to ask how to deal with a situation that should have been avoided.
 
Some girls really can't get it through their heads that it's not the James Dean wannabes that will treat them right. Some girls just can't get enough of that shit. I bet she passed up a dozen decent guys before sticking to that loser. Not much you can do man, but I feel for ya. :cookie:
 
If he's beating her, the only solution is to remove her from the situation immediately and get to the bottom of it. Keep her away from him. Not just feet, but remove all contact between them until it's sorted out.

If I ever found out some asshole was beating my sister, I would kick their ass. Nobody hurts my sis. :|
 
Need pics of sister for educated level of sympathy.

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Completely uncalled for PieIsAwesome. :roll:

Enjoy the rest of the night off.

Zim Hosein

Off Topic Moderator.
 
Originally posted by: Ronstang
I would have ruined my relationship withe every member of my family and my sister if necessary to chase a piece of shit like this away. It is a little late to ask how to deal with a situation that should have been avoided.

Trust me, I've used every tool in the box to try and get rid of him.

At this point, I just pretend he doesn't exist. I don't include him on any of the major family events. My brother, dad, and I go fishing on an island for a week, he doesn't come. Ski trips? Nope.

At this point, not much I can do at all. My family let the dog in and I can't get the fleas out.
 
Get a good friend who you know won't snitch and off' him in the woods


In all seriousness though, it's your sisters fault for marrying a douchebag. What makes it worse is that her douchebag choice is affecting your entire family. Guess who is going to be the father figure in your neice/nephews life? Either you or your dad.

I'm in the same boat and their isn't much you can do about it =(

Just don't ever lend him money, advice, or a roof, eventually they will learn to steer clear
 
Originally posted by: LegendKiller
So, 4 years ago my sister started dating a guy. When I first met him he was head to toe Nascar (had, jacket, socks, shoes, sunglasses...etc). Scraggly, ugly, with cigarettes behind his ears. I brought him to a nice steak place where he belched and blew it in my sisters face and even farted at the dinner table.

The next day we went to Epcot, where my sister fell and all he could do was laugh. Later he told her how to spend her money on my niece (they were dating at the time for 2 months).

As the years went by I saw this screwup mature into a fuckup. He's a year older than I am (31), lived at home, worked for his dad, and never earned a paycheck in his life (parents paid for everything). He puts crap in his truck, lights, stereos, and generally acts like an 18yo.

I could put up with all of that, barely.

2 years ago he was at my parents house for my sister's b-day party. My mom went around the house to collect people for dinner. Found my bro and dad outside working on the lawn, found my sister in the computer room, found hee-haw (my name for him after the belching/farting incident), in their living room, staring at his cell phone, jacking off.

Yeah, jacking off in my parent's living room.

2 years ago by with the guy being a perennial fuckup. His own dad fired him twice. His boss picks him up for work since he has no car (crashed 2) and can't get up to go to work (lazy POS).

At an amusement park, in front of my brother, he said "Wow, look at all of the hot kitties here" (insert female derogatory comment). He grabbed my SIL's ass at the same park, on the same day, just after grabbing a friend's ass. He showed my brother pr0n on his phone in my dad's hospital room (dad had a heart-attack).

I suspect he may be a Pedo. I cringe every time I see him with my niece and nephew, I am disgusted and worried.

She got married to him this past summer. In every picture I have my lip curled (unconscious response to the disgusting idea this pig is married to my sister).

This fall my parents stayed at their house (bought by his parents), where they found punch holes in the walls. So now I think he's physically abusing her. Her attitude has changed, she used to be somewhat air-head-ish and is now a bitch. She lies all of the time and might be stealing from my brother. She now always wants a free lunch, she complained about an impeccably good dinner at a high-end steak place, getting a $200 gift cert because she complained, nobody else did.

Now, this immature prick, who can't even hold a steady job, paycheck, or be responsible, has gotten my sister pregnant. She's 35, college educated, and has a good job. He barely passed HS.

Why is it that some women pick utter losers? Why does it have to be my very nice sister?

How does somebody deal with this situation?

this guy sounds like he needs to be neutered. I recommend just cutting him completely out of your life and if that has to include your sister so be it. People like that will take advantage of every weakness they perceive and you will most likely end up just wanting to kill him when he molests/beats up someone important to you. If your sister ever realizes her error she will come back and leave the retard. Its either that or frame him with drugs and call the cops. Keep him in prison where he probably belongs.
 
I'm going to be a complete asshole with this remark, but it is true. And I'm sorry for being so blunt. Not much you can do about it now other than hit the abort button on both the marriage and pregnancy.

"You wanna keep a good one? Get her pregnant."
 
BTW this reminds me of the time we were in IHOP and this redneck-looking dude aged about 30 endlessly burped as loud as possible as often as possible. His present company which included someone who looked like sis didn't even say anything. I was actually embarrassed for them but how do you go through life without learning any manners?
 
Originally posted by: LegendKiller
Originally posted by: rh71
Your sister is responsible. Someone should've had a talking to while they were still dating. How's she feel about being pregnant with his? If she doesn't mind it, I'm not so sure you should care any longer - just cut ties.

More or less has been my attitude the last year. I just can't take time to really worry about it. While she's an adult, it's still tough to see a sibling do this to their lives.

She's happy.

She's seriously happy?
 
Originally posted by: LegendKiller
So, 4 years ago my sister started dating a guy. When I first met him he was head to toe Nascar (had, jacket, socks, shoes, sunglasses...etc). Scraggly, ugly, with cigarettes behind his ears. I brought him to a nice steak place where he belched and blew it in my sisters face and even farted at the dinner table.

The next day we went to Epcot, where my sister fell and all he could do was laugh. Later he told her how to spend her money on my niece (they were dating at the time for 2 months).

As the years went by I saw this screwup mature into a fuckup. He's a year older than I am (31), lived at home, worked for his dad, and never earned a paycheck in his life (parents paid for everything). He puts crap in his truck, lights, stereos, and generally acts like an 18yo.

I could put up with all of that, barely.

2 years ago he was at my parents house for my sister's b-day party. My mom went around the house to collect people for dinner. Found my bro and dad outside working on the lawn, found my sister in the computer room, found hee-haw (my name for him after the belching/farting incident), in their living room, staring at his cell phone, jacking off.

Yeah, jacking off in my parent's living room.

2 years go by with the guy being a perennial fuckup. His own dad fired him twice. His boss picks him up for work since he has no car (crashed 2) and can't get up to go to work (lazy POS).

At an amusement park, in front of my brother, he said "Wow, look at all of the hot kitties here" (insert female derogatory comment). He grabbed my SIL's ass at the same park, on the same day, just after grabbing a friend's ass. He showed my brother pr0n on his phone in my dad's hospital room (dad had a heart-attack).

I suspect he may be a Pedo. I cringe every time I see him with my niece and nephew, I am disgusted and worried.

She got married to him this past summer. In every picture I have my lip curled (unconscious response to the disgusting idea this pig is married to my sister).

This fall my parents stayed at their house (bought by his parents), where they found punch holes in the walls. So now I think he's physically abusing her. Her attitude has changed, she used to be somewhat air-head-ish and is now a bitch. She lies all of the time and might be stealing from my brother. She now always wants a free lunch, she complained about an impeccably good dinner at a high-end steak place, getting a $200 gift cert because she complained, nobody else did.

Now, this immature prick, who can't even hold a steady job, paycheck, or be responsible, has gotten my sister pregnant. She's 35, college educated, and has a good job. He barely passed HS.

Why is it that some women pick utter losers? Why does it have to be my very nice sister?

How does somebody deal with this situation?

Ladder theory.
Read it.
 
Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: LegendKiller
Originally posted by: rh71
Your sister is responsible. Someone should've had a talking to while they were still dating. How's she feel about being pregnant with his? If she doesn't mind it, I'm not so sure you should care any longer - just cut ties.

More or less has been my attitude the last year. I just can't take time to really worry about it. While she's an adult, it's still tough to see a sibling do this to their lives.

She's happy.

She's seriously happy?

I think she's fooling herself about the whole situation. She's had a string of guys that've ended badly. I think she feels the ticking clock and went for the first guy she could find. Add to that she thinks she can change him, you get a winning combo of desperation and hard-luck pity.

She's a very nice person, it's striking to see the change in her behavior the last 5 years, that can find any number of nice guys, or at least a nice sperm bank.

Many of her old good friends have turned away from her, so at least I know it's not just me.
 
Originally posted by: LegendKiller
Originally posted by: JS80
Originally posted by: LegendKiller
Originally posted by: rh71
Your sister is responsible. Someone should've had a talking to while they were still dating. How's she feel about being pregnant with his? If she doesn't mind it, I'm not so sure you should care any longer - just cut ties.

More or less has been my attitude the last year. I just can't take time to really worry about it. While she's an adult, it's still tough to see a sibling do this to their lives.

She's happy.

She's seriously happy?

I think she's fooling herself about the whole situation. She's had a string of guys that've ended badly. I think she feels the ticking clock and went for the first guy she could find. Add to that she thinks she can change him, you get a winning combo of desperation and hard-luck pity.

She's a very nice person, it's striking to see the change in her behavior the last 5 years, that can find any number of nice guys, or at least a nice sperm bank.

Many of her old good friends have turned away from her, so at least I know it's not just me.

Man that is so odd. With that said, I have a younger sister, and I'm not sure what I would do if she had a significant other like that.
 
I dunno but perhaps he's got a big wango tango if you know what I mean. Maybe you should think about your sister more than yourself. Perhaps you're an incestophile and jealous because you really want your own sister. Ugh.
 
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