LegendKiller
Lifer
So, 4 years ago my sister started dating a guy. When I first met him he was head to toe Nascar (had, jacket, socks, shoes, sunglasses...etc). Scraggly, ugly, with cigarettes behind his ears. I brought him to a nice steak place where he belched and blew it in my sisters face and even farted at the dinner table.
The next day we went to Epcot, where my sister fell and all he could do was laugh. Later he told her how to spend her money on my niece (they were dating at the time for 2 months).
As the years went by I saw this screwup mature into a fuckup. He's a year older than I am (31), lived at home, worked for his dad, and never earned a paycheck in his life (parents paid for everything). He puts crap in his truck, lights, stereos, and generally acts like an 18yo.
I could put up with all of that, barely.
2 years ago he was at my parents house for my sister's b-day party. My mom went around the house to collect people for dinner. Found my bro and dad outside working on the lawn, found my sister in the computer room, found hee-haw (my name for him after the belching/farting incident), in their living room, staring at his cell phone, jacking off.
Yeah, jacking off in my parent's living room.
2 years go by with the guy being a perennial fuckup. His own dad fired him twice. His boss picks him up for work since he has no car (crashed 2) and can't get up to go to work (lazy POS).
At an amusement park, in front of my brother, he said "Wow, look at all of the hot kitties here" (insert female derogatory comment). He grabbed my SIL's ass at the same park, on the same day, just after grabbing a friend's ass. He showed my brother pr0n on his phone in my dad's hospital room (dad had a heart-attack).
I suspect he may be a Pedo. I cringe every time I see him with my niece and nephew, I am disgusted and worried.
She got married to him this past summer. In every picture I have my lip curled (unconscious response to the disgusting idea this pig is married to my sister).
This fall my parents stayed at their house (bought by his parents), where they found punch holes in the walls. So now I think he's physically abusing her. Her attitude has changed, she used to be somewhat air-head-ish and is now a bitch. She lies all of the time and might be stealing from my brother. She now always wants a free lunch, she complained about an impeccably good dinner at a high-end steak place, getting a $200 gift cert because she complained, nobody else did.
Now, this immature prick, who can't even hold a steady job, paycheck, or be responsible, has gotten my sister pregnant. She's 35, college educated, and has a good job. He barely passed HS.
Why is it that some women pick utter losers? Why does it have to be my very nice sister?
How does somebody deal with this situation?
The next day we went to Epcot, where my sister fell and all he could do was laugh. Later he told her how to spend her money on my niece (they were dating at the time for 2 months).
As the years went by I saw this screwup mature into a fuckup. He's a year older than I am (31), lived at home, worked for his dad, and never earned a paycheck in his life (parents paid for everything). He puts crap in his truck, lights, stereos, and generally acts like an 18yo.
I could put up with all of that, barely.
2 years ago he was at my parents house for my sister's b-day party. My mom went around the house to collect people for dinner. Found my bro and dad outside working on the lawn, found my sister in the computer room, found hee-haw (my name for him after the belching/farting incident), in their living room, staring at his cell phone, jacking off.
Yeah, jacking off in my parent's living room.
2 years go by with the guy being a perennial fuckup. His own dad fired him twice. His boss picks him up for work since he has no car (crashed 2) and can't get up to go to work (lazy POS).
At an amusement park, in front of my brother, he said "Wow, look at all of the hot kitties here" (insert female derogatory comment). He grabbed my SIL's ass at the same park, on the same day, just after grabbing a friend's ass. He showed my brother pr0n on his phone in my dad's hospital room (dad had a heart-attack).
I suspect he may be a Pedo. I cringe every time I see him with my niece and nephew, I am disgusted and worried.
She got married to him this past summer. In every picture I have my lip curled (unconscious response to the disgusting idea this pig is married to my sister).
This fall my parents stayed at their house (bought by his parents), where they found punch holes in the walls. So now I think he's physically abusing her. Her attitude has changed, she used to be somewhat air-head-ish and is now a bitch. She lies all of the time and might be stealing from my brother. She now always wants a free lunch, she complained about an impeccably good dinner at a high-end steak place, getting a $200 gift cert because she complained, nobody else did.
Now, this immature prick, who can't even hold a steady job, paycheck, or be responsible, has gotten my sister pregnant. She's 35, college educated, and has a good job. He barely passed HS.
Why is it that some women pick utter losers? Why does it have to be my very nice sister?
How does somebody deal with this situation?