So I just got the "I think I want to take a break..."

[arcenite]

I have been with my Fiancee for a little more than 3 years now and everything was going pretty damn good. It appears though as if she's not sure what she wants to do with her life and she wants to take a break. I have never allowed myself to feel for someone as I do her, and this is the reason. Does anyone have a snickers?


Bill

 

[The Stigenator]

sorry to hear that.. ask for the ring back now!

 

[huberm]

let her have her alone time for a few months or so. Just call her every once in a while so she knows you're still there.

In the meantime, have fun w/ the dating scene!

 

[hans030390]

I like snickers.

 

You're so young I'm surprised you actually believed your potential marriage would last.
Good luck.

 

[NathanBWF]

Hey join the club man! I got that line last Sunday, she's moving out at the end of the month. Cheers!

 

[moshquerade]

enjoy the break, really.
for one thing don't call her/IM her/email her all the time, because absence makes the heart grow fonder.

 

[her209]

I don't mean to sound like an ass, but it sounds like she's already moved on to another guy.

 

[Tremulant]

I have an Almond Snickers.

I prefer them over the normal ones.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Let me guess; she's in her 20's?

 

[Pliablemoose]

Sorry dude, and I agree with Mosh, no contact unless she initiates it, and then be very afraid, unless you're into meaningless sex...

Wait till she tells you she's felt this way for a year or so & didn't bother to share with you...

 

[simms]

*snickers for you*

 

[icelazer]

<shameless on>That's funny she said she wanted a break, she just told me "Please, don't stop!" </shameless off>

 

[Yossarian]

tell her you'll hold onto the ring while she figures out what she wants to do.

 

[illusion88]

give me a break, give me a break, break me off a piece of that KIT KAT bar.

 

[EmperorIQ]

i'm the wrong person to give advice here, but my take on "taking a break" is just a bunch of bs really. Its just black and white, either a break up or stay together.

oh yea, and hold onto the ring.

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: EmperorIQ
i'm the wrong person to give advice here, but my take on "taking a break" is just a bunch of bs really. Its just black and white, either a break up or stay together.

oh yea, and hold onto the ring.

this man speaks the truth

while you're on break she's out sleeping with other guys...can you handle that?

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: EmperorIQ
i'm the wrong person to give advice here, but my take on "taking a break" is just a bunch of bs really. Its just black and white, either a break up or stay together.

oh yea, and hold onto the ring.

I have the same feeling, and I made that clear to her. When I wrote this I was pretty upset but after taking a shower, my take on it is that there's no use living in tears about it because if she's unhappy with me, I am going to be unhappy. I believe I finally understand the phrase "I want you to be happy, even if it's not with me..."

SampSon, I know what you are saying and many people have often said the same thing to me.

Time to go do some studying for my exam tomorrow...

:heart: ATOT

Bill

 

[NiKeFiDO]

people say whats its like but its never the same as you think it will be. When it happens to you, then you finally understand other people.

it sucks. good luck, brother

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
enjoy the break, really.
for one thing don't call her/IM her/email her all the time, because absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I thought it was "Absence makes the heart wander."

 

[EmperorIQ]

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: EmperorIQ
i'm the wrong person to give advice here, but my take on "taking a break" is just a bunch of bs really. Its just black and white, either a break up or stay together.

oh yea, and hold onto the ring.

I have the same feeling, and I made that clear to her. When I wrote this I was pretty upset but after taking a shower, my take on it is that there's no use living in tears about it because if she's unhappy with me, I am going to be unhappy. I believe I finally understand the phrase "I want you to be happy, even if it's not with me..."

SampSon, I know what you are saying and many people have often said the same thing to me.

Time to go do some studying for my exam tomorrow...

:heart: ATOT

Bill

oh man, exam tomorrow? Good luck with that man! Do well please!

 

[Mucho]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

 

[hypn0tik]

Originally posted by: arcenite

Originally posted by: EmperorIQ
i'm the wrong person to give advice here, but my take on "taking a break" is just a bunch of bs really. Its just black and white, either a break up or stay together.

oh yea, and hold onto the ring.

I have the same feeling, and I made that clear to her. When I wrote this I was pretty upset but after taking a shower, my take on it is that there's no use living in tears about it because if she's unhappy with me, I am going to be unhappy. I believe I finally understand the phrase "I want you to be happy, even if it's not with me..."

SampSon, I know what you are saying and many people have often said the same thing to me.

Time to go do some studying for my exam tomorrow...

:heart: ATOT

Bill

I'm really sorry to hear that man. It must be rough.

However, she's a cold blooded <insert appropriate expletive here>. To break things off with you after 3 years is one thing but to do it right before an exam of yours is wholly unnecessary. She could have had the courtesy to wait till you were done with exams to tell you.

Good luck on your exam dude.

 

[PlatinumGold]

Originally posted by: arcenite
I have been with my Fiancee for a little more than 3 years now and everything was going pretty damn good. It appears though as if she's not sure what she wants to do with her life and she wants to take a break. I have never allowed myself to feel for someone as I do her, and this is the reason. Does anyone have a snickers?


Bill

remember, they only "satisfy" if you EAT it.

 

[PlatinumGold]

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: moshquerade
enjoy the break, really.
for one thing don't call her/IM her/email her all the time, because absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I thought it was "Absence makes the heart wander."

nope "grows fonder" is correct.

the other kind of opposite one is, "out of sight, out of mind".