What exactly do you do when you have to choose between two women?
It sounds pretty simple. You ask yourself who do you love more? Who do you enjoy being with more? Who would you want to spend a lifetime and grow old with? Who makes you laugh and smile?
Who do you trust?
Well what if they both are pretty equal on those, just for different reasons?
Then you think to yourself that your going to hurt one of them, there's no way around it. So maybe you should stay with the one that will be hurt the most and is less likely to recover quickly and fully? Well that's very considerate of you, but it leaves that great big gapeing "what if?" in your head the rest of your life. But then again either choice will leave that. One of them you know from a financial and practical standpoint there the one to choose, but the other makes you feel young, makes your pulse quicken, makes you want to live. This rapidly becomes a mess of sorts. And to make it worse, the one your with now, and have been for the last year and a half, knows how you feel, and understands, and has litteraly told you that she thinks you were more happy with the other, but would have a more stable lifestyle with her(that's a good thing). It takes an extrordanary woman to be that open and understanding, and not be some new-age lesbian freak, that mix of traditional values and modern femininity. Which, of course, the other pulls off too, but from a completly different angle, being not American born helps her in that I think.
So what does a guy do? Hmm? I don't want to hurt either, and this isnt an idle choice, this is one of those long and far reaching things. I hate sudden course corrections like this, it's much more preferable to tweak things here and there to get where I want to be. Every point I make for one the other matches somehow, and I'm to the point that I really don't want to add any more regret to my list in life a few years down the road when it's too late. ??
and yes I know your going to ask for pics, I'll scan some later...
It sounds pretty simple. You ask yourself who do you love more? Who do you enjoy being with more? Who would you want to spend a lifetime and grow old with? Who makes you laugh and smile?
Who do you trust?
Well what if they both are pretty equal on those, just for different reasons?
Then you think to yourself that your going to hurt one of them, there's no way around it. So maybe you should stay with the one that will be hurt the most and is less likely to recover quickly and fully? Well that's very considerate of you, but it leaves that great big gapeing "what if?" in your head the rest of your life. But then again either choice will leave that. One of them you know from a financial and practical standpoint there the one to choose, but the other makes you feel young, makes your pulse quicken, makes you want to live. This rapidly becomes a mess of sorts. And to make it worse, the one your with now, and have been for the last year and a half, knows how you feel, and understands, and has litteraly told you that she thinks you were more happy with the other, but would have a more stable lifestyle with her(that's a good thing). It takes an extrordanary woman to be that open and understanding, and not be some new-age lesbian freak, that mix of traditional values and modern femininity. Which, of course, the other pulls off too, but from a completly different angle, being not American born helps her in that I think.
So what does a guy do? Hmm? I don't want to hurt either, and this isnt an idle choice, this is one of those long and far reaching things. I hate sudden course corrections like this, it's much more preferable to tweak things here and there to get where I want to be. Every point I make for one the other matches somehow, and I'm to the point that I really don't want to add any more regret to my list in life a few years down the road when it's too late. ??
and yes I know your going to ask for pics, I'll scan some later...
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