Well... I kissed my wife rather vigorously before we were even "dating", she actually attacked me in my computer chair so I guess it was her who kissed first. As for my first kiss ever, I met a girl in college (yes, I waited that long to kiss anyone) who kissed me after a week. Let me tell you what a shock it is to get a french kiss at a college when you have never been kissed before and came from a private, very conservative high school. Ah well, the next kiss after that was the one from my wife so it at least prepared me.
-spike