Axon
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- Sep 25, 2003
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Sorry to be so vehement. There are alot of different expectations and opinions on it. It worked for alot of people and thats okay. I'm probably most angry at going to college without really thinking about it. My friends who went into trades did WAY better. If it was my own decision and not hearing 1,000 times over that I needed to go to college I really wouldn't have gone. I would have looked at the price and just laughed.
I think this is the problem. Our culture makes it seems like we MUST go to college. Let me use my own example here. My mom was obsessed with my education; to call her relentless is being kind. She hounded me as a child, was impossible to please, and I was terrified of her. In HS I rebelled big time and had crap grades.
Despite this, she still insisted I go to college, and at 17, you're not entirely free of paternal control, so I went. She said to go, my friends were going, everyone was going, so I went. I'm not sure if I even wanted to. I certainly wasn't interested in more education or school. I didn't REALLY understand what I was getting into in terms of debt, and there wasn't much in the way of education about it in 1997.
That's not to absolve myself of all blame, I signed on the dotted line. But at 17...you don't know crap. Especially my generation. We're a generation of children! I have people 29, 30, who I know, and they act 17...ridiculous.