I am not feeling I am in a contest. I don't object to your counterpoints to my posts because I feel attacked or threatened. I feel they very often have nothing to do with what I say, that you are jousting at windmills of your own creation. I do not reject your reaching out to me. My problem is that you don't see what I do as reaching out to you when I think that is what I was doing.
I absolutely think you intend to help. I want to get that out of the way first.
Look, you say you don't feel that you are being attacked, but, the very next think you do is build imagery of me attacking.
Normally I would point out that conflict, but, in this case I will change things up. How would you want me to bridge that difference, and or, how did I misunderstand you there?