Originally posted by: Aztech
But I just really need some REAL sex right now. This will be the last time...really.
Dude, get a high priced hooker. It will be MUCH cheaper.
Dude, get a high priced hooker. It will be MUCH cheaper.
I don't understand your last sentence. Anyway, I did hold on to hope and I guess the opportunity has always been there for me to try and get her back. Now she's played the field a while and discovered that she can get sex, but it's gonna be hard to find someone to settle down with and get support. So, she's ready to get back with me. Yeah, I don't like that.
Women will always come back when it suits them and they need something.
Seriously it might be tempting but dont do it. You really want some other daddy coming around and a part of your life?? Even if he's not now he probably will eventually. Think of the problems this could cause. And good god dont even think of marrying her again.
Seriously it might be tempting but dont do it. You really want some other daddy coming around and a part of your life?? Even if he's not now he probably will eventually. Think of the problems this could cause. And good god dont even think of marrying her again.
If you get back together with her you deserve every single possible thing that can and WILL go wrong (just like before).
When you do get back together with her (and you will because you're obviously weak, easily manipulated and still madly in love with her), make sure to post many YAGT threads here.
Go out and get some other tail, no one should live with only having had sex with one person.
This is how you do it:
Talk to younger friends who are in college.
Go out with them and have them dress you.
Have them point out which girls are getting drunk and looking like they want to go home with someone.
Observe what the girl is drinking.
Buy that drink, and one for yourself.
Walk over to girl and use some sort of line and give her the drink.
Talk, dance if you have to. You will know quickly if she digs you or not.
If she doesn't go back to observing the drink step and repeat.
If you cannot manage that, by all means go back to your ex-wife, get the same old sex, take care of your (not really yours) new child, live not-so-happily-ever-after.
When you do get back together with her (and you will because you're obviously weak, easily manipulated and still madly in love with her), make sure to post many YAGT threads here.
Go out and get some other tail, no one should live with only having had sex with one person.
This is how you do it:
Talk to younger friends who are in college.
Go out with them and have them dress you.
Have them point out which girls are getting drunk and looking like they want to go home with someone.
Observe what the girl is drinking.
Buy that drink, and one for yourself.
Walk over to girl and use some sort of line and give her the drink.
Talk, dance if you have to. You will know quickly if she digs you or not.
If she doesn't go back to observing the drink step and repeat.
If you cannot manage that, by all means go back to your ex-wife, get the same old sex, take care of your (not really yours) new child, live not-so-happily-ever-after.
Skunkwourk
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Its just my opinion that if after 7 years of marriage, if she could let this happen to herself shes probably more trouble that shes worth. Im not against having fun, exploring some more or releasing frustrations, but poor choices lead to poor results, and shes got a kid after a one nights stand...
It's so ironic that when we were together and married I didn't think I was in love with her. Now, I consider taking her back after all that's happened. I guess I do love her. In any case, I NEED her this weekend, don't try to talk me out of that. It may be a little wrong, but in the scheme of things, it doesn't change anything. I feel justified in it. And even after that, if she'll be my sex buddy while we search for others, then why not?
Every time palmerella and her 5 sisters get old guess who's going to be there to pick up the slack. This may seem like a good thing in the short term, but every time you meet you're going to have to talk to her. She'll be extremely nice at first but eventually a sense of you owing her something for these "meetings" will emerge. Many women have a hard time differentiating casual sex from a relationship so don't be surprised when she starts implying that you two are an item once again. It will be a gradual process in which it is hard to define the exact moment in which you decide that you are obligated to be with her again, but if you pursue sexual relations with her then you have allowed her to get her foot in the door.
Are you really dumb enough to think she's only going to be your sex buddy?
She has a 6 month old baby and is living with her mother. She wants you to support her and her child. Dealing with your penis is worth it for the support, but don't expect it if you're not supporting her. Although you've said that you've been giving her money, so you're already done for. Congrats.
DEAR GOD NO! If you didn't feel like you ever really loved her after 12 years, then what good is a child that isn't yours going to do for your relationship? Just be thankful that the child isn't yours and that you aren't going to have to pay 18 years of child support to a woman that you don't love. If you fought over money all the time, then the idea that she wants you for the monetary support is a valid one.
Find a nice looking girl and ask for her number, you'll be glad that you did.
theLION
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well although most everyone for the most part agrees that you should run and not look back, there is a possible chance (although it seems a very low possibility) that things can work out. it could be that she really did learn her lesson and all, but the fact that she had to "have fun" with other guys to realize she wants you back just really gets to me. i mean c'mon, you're like the consolation prize to her. and the fact that she has a baby - well it's pretty obvious she needs someone to help her take care of the baby and who else but the person she was married to. ill admit though that it would be pretty noble of you to get back with her just for the child since it's a good thing for a child to have a daddy. but if you get back with her, you better take control of the relationship and not let her walk all over you - be a man. it just seems that you are a huge push-over.
Skunkwourk
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justified? I understand your pain, but shes got a kid now, even if he/she is too young to comprehend anything, don't get involved with a woman with a kid unless you're serious. Seriously what you NEED is sex with no strings attatched, shes got an entire kid chained to her...
I don't know. We both have needs. I guess as long as we both know that that's all it is. But she's got many more friends and they hook her up with guys pretty easy, so she'd probably do that instead.
Like I say, I'm starting to see the light. We just can't be anymore. I guess we'll separate again this weekend after she tries to get me back using her body.
Skunkwourk
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She probably would hook up with her girlfriend's guys except for the fact that shes betting that she can count on you for her current needs, money and support. Don't be that sucker. I know this is just the internet, and I don't know you, neither do the rest of us on this board. But we're trying to save you from further pain. Don't do it, get drunk, cry about it, pleasure yourself, spend the night with an escort, but just don't do it.
This much is true. I've always had problems saying no. It runs in my family. I'm a bleeding heart and I consider getting back with her because she's made her mistakes and has a baby and has no money and lives with her mom...
I want to punch you..... hard.... in the balls....
It will be less painfiul and drawn out than what you are going to be doing to yourself.
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