She left me :(

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I was in love with this girl. I wouldn't wish this feeling on my worst enemy.

Go ahead and make fun, I couldn't feel any worse right now anyway.

u mean the 2 strippers that u paid $600 for a 3some?!

(and what did the doc recommend for your oral Herpes?)

 

[Mrvile]

Originally posted by: GuideBot

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I am going to call in sick to work tomorrow, I can't focus on that sort of thing right now.

You can't focus on what sort of thing right now? Your life? I hate to break it to you, but she's not a part of it anymore and focusing on her isn't going to do you any good. In fact, it will do you quite a bit of harm. Find something to fill the void before you get any more self destructive. Yes, not going to work because you can't focus on "that sort of thing" is self destructive.

If you don't want to look at it that way, look at it this way: She left you so don't let her win by syphoning the life out of you. Bust your ass now that she's gone to be totally awesome at work and in your personal life. Next time she sees you, you'll be like "hey, what's up loser-person-who-is-not-as-awesome-as-me?" and she'll be like "omg hi totally-more-awesome-than-me-cuz-I'm-a-terrible-person guy!" and it'll make you feel enormously better.

Amen. Go to work tomorrow and get your mind off things bro.

 

[Doggiedog]

Sorry to hear that dude.

You're not alone and its not going to be the only time it happens unfortunately.

Me = :brokenheart: ^x

 

[bennylong]

life ain't worth living I tells ya

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: potato28

Originally posted by: RichardE
2 bottles of Vodka...
1 Bottle of Tequilla...
2 Hookers..

It will all be better in 3 days (when the alchohol finally passes through your body)

:laugh:

Best part is that the alcohol will do its part too as a disinfectant 😀

 

[heat23]

Originally posted by: Rock Hydra
Wow, seems like lots of people are getting dumped within the last few days.

Happened to me last week too.. 🙁

 

[Journer]

1) get some alcohol (not old enough? find a friend/random person/bum)
2) drink said alcohol
3) jerk it to some good porn
4) watch a good movie (one of your favorites)
5) watch another good porn...
6) sleep (or more porn, then sleep)

PS: what kind of pussy calls off of work because his GF left him...if you have been going out for a LONG time (over 3 or 4 years) and it was a pretty serrious breakup...i MIGHT could understand 1 day...if it was the wife of a couple years...maybe 2 or 3...wife of long time could be more...but still...not going to work will do nothing...if anything call off work because you will be drinking too much 😀

 

[Kyle]

best advice I got when this happened-
self improvment is the best revenge.
get your ass to the gym and lift like there's no tomorrow- run like hell, lose a bunch of weight and look GREAT- then see if she wants to go out for lunch of somthin.
When she shows interest in getting back together, turn her down.
(plus in the process you'll probably meet other girls which happens to be the best way to get your mind off of the one that left =)

 

[imported_Stewy]

Originally posted by: Rock Hydra
Wow, seems like lots of people are getting dumped within the last few days.

I know! Those of us need to form a club or something! We'd be a force to be reckoned with in no time!

Sorry to hear that man! I just got dumped by my 3 year GF, for what appears to be a foreign exchange student. However, the pain is getting less and less every day.

 

[FallenHero]

Get with guy friends stat. That has helped me the most in the past.

 

[Miramonti]

Sorry to hear it. Time time time is what they say and they're right. Hang in there, even tho it feels so sh!tty.

 

[ManSnake]

The best way to solve the problem is to turn gay...

 

[warpigeon]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I was in love with this girl. I wouldn't wish this feeling on my worst enemy.

Go ahead and make fun, I couldn't feel any worse right now anyway.

Everyone here seems to recommend drinking a lot. Having gone through this I want to modify the drinking advice a bit. Don't allow yourself to get hangovers! I encourage you to drink but don't get plastered to the point you're hung the next day. Hungover, alone, miserable and heart broken is a really, really bad combination. So yes, drink- it does help- but do it carefully.

 

[Nik]

Originally posted by: warpigeon

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I was in love with this girl. I wouldn't wish this feeling on my worst enemy.

Go ahead and make fun, I couldn't feel any worse right now anyway.

Everyone here seems to recommend drinking a lot. Having gone through this I want to modify the drinking advice a bit. Don't allow yourself to get hangovers! I encourage you to drink but don't get plastered to the point you're hung the next day. Hungover, alone, miserable and heart broken is a really, really bad combination. So yes, drink- it does help- but do it carefully.

There have been no serious replies in this thread for advice toward drinking heavily.

 

[neutralizer]

for you.

 

[Siva]

Better now than later, I always say

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

I wish you bad luck. Hand in your man card STAT.

 

[xanis]

Originally posted by: Goosemaster
damn dude.....seriously go to talco hell, eat as many enchuritos, and when the bleddign subsides, I assure you that she will be the last thing on your mind

I think it's time to stop drinking.

 

[MustangSVT]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I was in love with this girl. I wouldn't wish this feeling on my worst enemy.

Go ahead and make fun, I couldn't feel any worse right now anyway.

Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

lmao.. u are pathetic. she will use you for everything you've got and dump ur ass again.
when will you learn?

 

[Modular]

Wait...she dumped you last night. Went out and partied with a bunch of guys....(you know what happened next) and now she's back stringing you along because she has you on a leash.

After the first break-up, the relationship is do0med. There's no reason to get back together.

 

[montanafan]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

Hmmmm, not asking for you to go into detail, but did she leave you because of something you did, or is this one of those deals where she thinks the two of you need a break?

Just asking because if you were at fault for the breakup, but she's talking to you now, I'd say there is a chance. If she just dumped you because she wanted something different, there's much less chance this will work out.

 

[D1gger]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

You lose. This is going to end very badly, with stalking, 20 voice mails per day, keyed cars, 35 page letters, shredded flowers, restraining orders, ......

Just cut your losses now and end it. Do not talk to her again, do not think you are ever going to get back together, and just move on.

There are more females out there just waiting for you.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: montanafan

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

Hmmmm, not asking for you to go into detail, but did she leave you because of something you did, or is this one of those deals where she thinks the two of you need a break?

Just asking because if you were at fault for the breakup, but she's talking to you now, I'd say there is a chance. If she just dumped you because she wanted something different, there's much less chance this will work out.

She broke up with me because I over reacted to a situation. I agree I over reacted and caused a big fight for nothing but I don't think that is any reason to break up with me. So she was and is really upset but I think I can win her back.

 

[purbeast0]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: montanafan

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

Hmmmm, not asking for you to go into detail, but did she leave you because of something you did, or is this one of those deals where she thinks the two of you need a break?

Just asking because if you were at fault for the breakup, but she's talking to you now, I'd say there is a chance. If she just dumped you because she wanted something different, there's much less chance this will work out.

She broke up with me because I over reacted to a situation. I agree I over reacted and caused a big fight for nothing but I don't think that is any reason to break up with me. So she was and is really upset but I think I can win her back.

:thumbsup:

good luck. getting into 1 huge fight is not a reason to break up IMO. sure maybe the thought crossed her mind but when you sit down and think about it logically it's just one of the dumbest reasons to break up.

now if this is the 5th huge fight this week, thats a different story.

 

[Vegitto]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: montanafan

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Update 1:
There might still be hope. We got together and had lunch today. Everything seemed to go well. There might still be hope!!! 🙂 I think I can win her back over. Wish me luck

Hmmmm, not asking for you to go into detail, but did she leave you because of something you did, or is this one of those deals where she thinks the two of you need a break?

Just asking because if you were at fault for the breakup, but she's talking to you now, I'd say there is a chance. If she just dumped you because she wanted something different, there's much less chance this will work out.

She broke up with me because I over reacted to a situation. I agree I over reacted and caused a big fight for nothing but I don't think that is any reason to break up with me. So she was and is really upset but I think I can win her back.

Seriously, man, I've been there. Don't do it, you'll never, EVER get together with her again and she'll only use you as her personal slave. Seriously, don't fall for it. She WANTS you to think you guys can get back together, but in reality, she's scrogging someone else.