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Serious Question: Athiests... do you believe in love?

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Originally posted by: Dragnov
Unless you believe love is just a chemical reaction in your brain that is...

...but, as chemical reactions in your brain go, it's one of the more fun ones. 😉
 
1. Yes, I believe in God.

2. I do not believe in love if you're referring to some type of power that exists outside of the mind. Love is an emotion. Emotions exist within the mind, IE, complex chemical reactions.... which empirically boils down to "matter" (atoms/particles/etc. reacting to each other). Therefore, I don't believe that love between two humans exists outside of the mind. God and his love exist outside of the mind, in the "physical" world, which we can never have access to, since we're limited to sense data and sensations.

 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: dighn
what do you mean by believing in love?

As in can you fall in love with someone, and it be everlasting, commited happily to one person, blah blah blah... and not just a bunch of sex related chemical reactions....

clearer?

i dunno, that makes it rather real doesn't it. doesn't need a mystical aspect to be worthwhile.

believing all that mystical mumble jumbo like souls just serves to cheapen the lives we live on earth, in reality.
 
Originally posted by: Dragnov
I think he's getting that "love" (as generally known) is simply believed in through faith. Theres nothign tangible/scientific about love. Theres no real legitimate reaosn to believe in love and not God (or vice versa).

Unless you believe love is just a chemical reaction in your brain that is...

Now THAT makes more sense. Otherwise this topic would be absolutely stupid.

Doboji

The difference is there is a measureable physical (chemical) difference between people 'in' and 'out' of love. That can observed and recorded. I would say the opposite of a god, but somebody would take it out of context in an attempt to make me look like an idiot.
 
Well ok... I wasn't trying to force any kind of connection necessarily... I'm just trying to get an idea of what atheists think of love... and what your perspective on it is...

The next step of WHAT one believes ABOUT love is way out of the scope of any poll.

However.. I would argue that "love" goes beyond the commonly defined boundaries of "peer-bonding"... I believe that love is something beyond simple chemical reactions... what exactly I have no idea... but certainly something... errr "special"?

Love certainly rises above "relationship"... and is something unproveable, and intangible... kinda like belief in god... I'm not trying to force a link... I'm just getting an idea of how the two intangible, unproveable beliefs relate.

-Max
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: dighn
what do you mean by believing in love?

As in can you fall in love with someone, and it be everlasting, commited happily to one person, blah blah blah... and not just a bunch of sex related chemical reactions....

clearer?

In that case, no.
 
What is love?

There's...

Divine love
Sexual love
Fraternal love
Parental love
Filial love
Familial love
Animal love
Bubba love

Can you please specify to which of the above (or others) which you are referring?

If you're going to make a philosophical inquiry, think it through first and clearly define what you mean.
 
Originally posted by: MadCowDisease
What is love?

There's...

Divine love
Sexual love
Fraternal love
Parental love
Filial love
Familial love
Animal love
Bubba love

Can you please specify to which of the above (or others) which you are referring?

If you're going to make a philosophical inquiry, think it through first and clearly define what you mean.


I think I've provided more than sufficient definition to discuss thoroughly... pic any from the above and discuss.. what is there to Parental love?.... is it magical and special.. or just a bunch of chemical reactions in the brain... if it's just chemical reactions then.. doesn't that dillute the meaning of the terminology itself?

or how about romantic love?... what about the difference between romantic love, and sexual love?... is there a difference?

Jesus christ people... stop being so damn defensive before there's something to defend against...

-Max
 
Originally posted by: JustAnAverageGuy
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: JustAnAverageGuy
Am I an atheist?

Yes

Do I believe in love?

Yes

Do I believe in your definition of love?

No

so what is your definition?

I'm quite content with the whole chemical changes theory.

So then romantic love is just a different chemical reaction than parental love? There's nothing to it beyond the chemicals?

-Max
 
What kind of silly question is this?

"Love" has nothing to do with religion.
 
Originally posted by: Eli
What kind of silly question is this?

"Love" has nothing to do with religion.

I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...

Difference being that love can be proven. Whereas religion is debateable
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: Eli
What kind of silly question is this?

"Love" has nothing to do with religion.

I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...

And we're trying to figure out what the fvck "love" has to do with religious orientation. 😛

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: JustAnAverageGuy
Originally posted by: Doboji
I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...

Difference being that love can be proven. Whereas religion is debateable


Really? how?
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: Eli
What kind of silly question is this?

"Love" has nothing to do with religion.

I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...
I can respect that. That is a strange view, though.

Love is clearly a human thing... you don't need to believe in God to know that love is a real emotion.

It's kinda like asking if you have to believe in Satan to believe that water boils, or something.
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: MadCowDisease
What is love?

There's...

Divine love
Sexual love
Fraternal love
Parental love
Filial love
Familial love
Animal love
Bubba love

Can you please specify to which of the above (or others) which you are referring?

If you're going to make a philosophical inquiry, think it through first and clearly define what you mean.


I think I've provided more than sufficient definition to discuss thoroughly... pic any from the above and discuss.. what is there to Parental love?.... is it magical and special.. or just a bunch of chemical reactions in the brain... if it's just chemical reactions then.. doesn't that dillute the meaning of the terminology itself?

or how about romantic love?... what about the difference between romantic love, and sexual love?... is there a difference?

Jesus christ people... stop being so damn defensive before there's something to defend against...

-Max

Isn't that going beyond the scope of your original question "Do atheists believe in love?" Now you're discussing about the differences in types of love...that seems to be an entirely different question.

...I'm not being defensive. I'm just saying your question is incredibly vague.
 
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: Eli
What kind of silly question is this?

"Love" has nothing to do with religion.

I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...
I can respect that. That is a strange view, though.

Love is clearly a human thing... you don't need to believe in God to know that love is a real emotion.

It's kinda like asking if you have to believe in Satan to believe that water boils, or something.


Yeah to be honest, love itself is proving hard to define... and it says something about the mindset of atheists in that they demand a very specific definition of the term itself... I guess when I asked the question I think of love in a very abstract way... more than just emotions... magical if you will, but all that is behind the scenes thinking, it just sort of gets rolled up into the way I think of the term itself. That's just me though.

 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: JustAnAverageGuy
Originally posted by: Doboji
I was just curious if Atheists believed in love... or whether they refused to call it love... claim it as purely scientific chemicals etc... just some curiosity...

Difference being that love can be proven. Whereas religion is debateable


Really? how?
Because we can scientifically measure the changes in ones body/brain when you're experiencing the emotion "love", just like we can with "anger", "sadness", etc...
 
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