ARM started out for desktop in the archimedes line and later as a replacement for the 68000 found in the Amiga and Aplle PCs of the time it made it until around the year 2000 where it became obvious that the technology can't scale upwards enough to remain relevant for desktop use.
The same problems remain today,sure technology came a long way and ARM are much more capable than back then but X86 didn't sleep all this time either.
ARM doesn't scale up with power and x86 doesn't scale down with power that's just the way it is,it might change at some point in the future but it's still a long time until then.
Aarch64 is ground up ISA made for todays knowledge(2011) to make easy to design, power efficient and well performing cpu's. It isn't even compatible with older ARM-versions. AMD and Apple started to design aarch64 cpu's about as soon as it released.
For most important part of performance, IPC, measured as different ISA so not literally by count of instructions, Apple current aarch64 core is about twice as fast as best performing x86.