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alkemyst

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Great movie...totally unexpected. I wanted to see a horror flick, my wife gets too grossed out by them though. The 8 and 9pm showings sold out though, so I figured I'd give it a try.

The movie focuses on 4 couples that go to a retreat each year. About everything you can do wrong in a relationship is there and how to work through it (sometimes). Google/Wiki/IMDB can provide all the details and spoilers you'd want.

Thought it was going to be a dopey chick flick but it was very funny. The audience was dying laughing, jeering at certain characters, 'ahh'ing; it definitely got the crowd going.

It's a Tyler Perry movie (Madea series) who is a great actor and writer.

Racists won't like this movie...one couple commented as we were leaving "I think they purposely were trying to say something having all blacks in that film, we should get our money back" :confused: Which was pretty brave considering about 75% of the crowd leaving at that showing were black and the movie was extremely well done. All the characters seemed very believeable in their roles. It was about as well cast as it could have been.

My wife wants to buy it as soon as it comes on DVD.

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QED

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Tyler Perry?

Only knowing him through the constant barrage of unfunny commercials on TBS for what seems to be a very unfunny sitcom (Tyler Perry's House of Payne), makes me wonder why anyone would want to see a movie of his.
 

compman25

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Originally posted by: TechHead87
Me and a "lady-friend" of mine are going to see it this coming up weekend.

Your hand doesn't count as a "lady-friend".
 

overst33r

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I saw it with a "lady friend". I loved it. Hilarious and it gets mushy in some points, but overall, it was an excellent movie.
 

MixMasterTang

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Originally posted by: compman25
Originally posted by: TechHead87
Me and a "lady-friend" of mine are going to see it this coming up weekend.

Your hand doesn't count as a "lady-friend".

Maybe he get's manicures and uses a lot of hand lotion to make his hands nice and soft! ;)
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: yamadakun
3.1 rating on imdb, no thanks.

If you would read about the movie and have an open mindset you will see the movie has been the victim of some shady dealings.

One is the number of F and 1's when many others are giving it high marks.

Another problem is some theatres have been found guilty of selling someone a ticket for another movie rather than 'Married' so the film wouldn't get credits.

There is a long story to it, but basically it's got race at its root.

 

DarkThinker

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...one couple commented as we were leaving "I think they purposely were trying to say something having all blacks in that film, we should get our money back"

Well, I would like to know how black people would feel about deliberately %100 non-black movie.
Unfortunately, I feel this is a growing trend, African-Americans isolating themselves in an increasing fashion and then coming back and complaining about how they feel alienated from society.
Things like BET this movie and other stuff send the wrong messages to the black community, a message of isolation and racism.
 

Linux23

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Originally posted by: DarkThinker
...one couple commented as we were leaving "I think they purposely were trying to say something having all blacks in that film, we should get our money back"

Well, I would like to know how black people would feel about deliberately %100 non-black movie.
Unfortunately, I feel this is a growing trend, African-Americans isolating themselves in an increasing fashion and then coming back and complaining about how they feel alienated from society.
Things like BET this movie and other stuff send the wrong messages to the black community, a message of isolation and racism.

huh?? i grew up watching all white sitcoms, and movies. heck, i didn't know black folk was allowed on tv until I saw the Cosby show.:confused:
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: DarkThinker
...one couple commented as we were leaving "I think they purposely were trying to say something having all blacks in that film, we should get our money back"

Well, I would like to know how black people would feel about deliberately %100 non-black movie.
Unfortunately, I feel this is a growing trend, African-Americans isolating themselves in an increasing fashion and then coming back and complaining about how they feel alienated from society.
Things like BET this movie and other stuff send the wrong messages to the black community, a message of isolation and racism.

Dude there are TONS of all white movies.

Maybe if you only grown up since the 90's, and only watch new American flicks by the likes of Disney, Pixar, and the like you will see mixed casts.

For a long time blacks on screen were played by whites in makeup.

People take BET the wrong way...it's not about black people trying to alienate themselves, it about tv targetted at their demographic. You also have AZN, and several spanish only stations.

Also the funny part with this debate that people are saying there was no white people...the student that is sort of an antagonist to drive the story is a VERY white female. The classroom is also a mix of races.

 

DarkThinker

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Originally posted by: Linux23
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
...one couple commented as we were leaving "I think they purposely were trying to say something having all blacks in that film, we should get our money back"

Well, I would like to know how black people would feel about deliberately %100 non-black movie.
Unfortunately, I feel this is a growing trend, African-Americans isolating themselves in an increasing fashion and then coming back and complaining about how they feel alienated from society.
Things like BET this movie and other stuff send the wrong messages to the black community, a message of isolation and racism.

huh?? i grew up watching all white sitcoms, and movies. heck, i didn't know black folk was allowed on tv until I saw the Cosby show.:confused:

Don't get me wrong here.

But Whites ARE the majority, you see it's normal when I walk in to a class at the university and find that it's all whites, it's also normal to walk in to a class and find that %10->%50 of the students are Black. However what is not normal for me to see is a %99 black class at the university. You get it? Demographcs determines things like this. It
s not to say that all white movies and shows are fine with me, but I like to see things follow natural proportions(except for special cases when the movie / show requires a certain ethnic group). Since there is a bigger number of White actors than black actors, there is a higher chance that a white person comes along and nails the part than a black person. But what are the odds (if the movie is not about a black specific issue like history slavery or civil rights) that all black actors nail all parts in a movie if the people making the movies didn't have that in mind?

You get my point? It would be OK if a producer to say, I don't want any white people in the cast even though they would fit the character, meanwhile it would be frowned upon if a producer says I don't want any blacks in this movie.
 

krunchykrome

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:thumbsup: good movie

although, I've never seen soo many fur coats and references to god in one movie, in my life.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: DarkThinker

Don't get me wrong here.

But Whites ARE the majority, you see it's normal when I walk in to a class at the university and find that it's all whites, it's also normal to walk in to a class and find that %10->%50 of the students are Black. However what is not normal for me to see is a %99 black class at the university. You get it? Demographcs determines things like this. It
s not to say that all white movies and shows are fine with me, but I like to see things follow natural proportions(except for special cases when the movie / show requires a certain ethnic group). Since there is a bigger number of White actors than black actors, there is a higher chance that a white person comes along and nails the part than a black person. But what are the odds (if the movie is not about a black specific issue like history slavery or civil rights) that all black actors nail all parts in a movie if the people making the movies didn't have that in mind?

You get my point? It would be OK if a producer to say, I don't want any white people in the cast even though they would fit the character, meanwhile it would be frowned upon if a producer says I don't want any blacks in this movie.

The university is your university. There are colleges where whites are very minority.

Also there are about as many black actors as whites out there. They are filtered out way before they get a chance to nail a part.

 

legoman666

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: DarkThinker

Don't get me wrong here.

But Whites ARE the majority, you see it's normal when I walk in to a class at the university and find that it's all whites, it's also normal to walk in to a class and find that %10->%50 of the students are Black. However what is not normal for me to see is a %99 black class at the university. You get it? Demographcs determines things like this. It
s not to say that all white movies and shows are fine with me, but I like to see things follow natural proportions(except for special cases when the movie / show requires a certain ethnic group). Since there is a bigger number of White actors than black actors, there is a higher chance that a white person comes along and nails the part than a black person. But what are the odds (if the movie is not about a black specific issue like history slavery or civil rights) that all black actors nail all parts in a movie if the people making the movies didn't have that in mind?

You get my point? It would be OK if a producer to say, I don't want any white people in the cast even though they would fit the character, meanwhile it would be frowned upon if a producer says I don't want any blacks in this movie.

The university is your university. There are colleges where whites are very minority.

Also there are about as many black actors as whites out there. They are filtered out way before they get a chance to nail a part.

The hell there are. Link to proof?
 

DarkThinker

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: DarkThinker

Don't get me wrong here.

But Whites ARE the majority, you see it's normal when I walk in to a class at the university and find that it's all whites, it's also normal to walk in to a class and find that %10->%50 of the students are Black. However what is not normal for me to see is a %99 black class at the university. You get it? Demographcs determines things like this. It
s not to say that all white movies and shows are fine with me, but I like to see things follow natural proportions(except for special cases when the movie / show requires a certain ethnic group). Since there is a bigger number of White actors than black actors, there is a higher chance that a white person comes along and nails the part than a black person. But what are the odds (if the movie is not about a black specific issue like history slavery or civil rights) that all black actors nail all parts in a movie if the people making the movies didn't have that in mind?

You get my point? It would be OK if a producer to say, I don't want any white people in the cast even though they would fit the character, meanwhile it would be frowned upon if a producer says I don't want any blacks in this movie.

The university is your university. There are colleges where whites are very minority.

In my post I say "Demographics determine things like that...".

If I was living in an area where Whites are a minority, then I would expect my University to have a higher rate of Black students in it, but in my area blacks exist in low numbers, so my statement holds.

Also there are about as many black actors as whites out there. They are filtered out way before they get a chance to nail a part.

Proof please? And even if that was true, I would say they get filtered not because of racism in higher numbers because "too many black actors" in an American movie usually in most cases would reflect a false demographic (again unless it's a specific topic) and thereby reducing the realism of the movie itself.
 

TechHead87

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Originally posted by: DarkThinker
...one couple commented as we were leaving "I think they purposely were trying to say something having all blacks in that film, we should get our money back"

Well, I would like to know how black people would feel about deliberately %100 non-black movie.
Unfortunately, I feel this is a growing trend, African-Americans isolating themselves in an increasing fashion and then coming back and complaining about how they feel alienated from society.
Things like BET this movie and other stuff send the wrong messages to the black community, a message of isolation and racism.

Contrary to popular belief, every Black person does NOT watch BET. I stopped watching it YEARS ago (around the time it stopped attempting to inform and better help those who watched the network...BET News/Teen Summit/BET on Jazz, etc.). BET used to have some sense of pride in things like that, but now it's just a network meant to entertain youthful ignorance. As I grew up, and the network grew away from it's roots, I chose to be entertained by other things.

Also contrary to popular belief, every "100% Black" tv show/movie is probably not meant to exclude other races. The same way a lot of "100% White" tv show/movie is not meant to exclude other races. It's not as if Tyler Perry started writing a script and said: "Gee, I dont think I want any White/Asian/Hispanic persons in my film."

But let's not let logic get in the way of a good arguement...
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Proof please? And even if that was true, I would say they get filtered not because of racism in higher numbers because "too many black actors" in an American movie usually in most cases would reflect a false demographic (again unless it's a specific topic) and thereby reducing the realism of the movie itself.

How about you provide proof otherwise? It's clear you are in an argument where you have no fking clue on. Take a look around play tryouts and acting classes. It's going to be based on what YOUR DEMOGRAPHIC is on where you live, but you will see just as many black, spanish and white people trying out.

You can also find interviews with black actors that made it that talk about how hard it was to get roles.

Also more than just 'black' people watch BET.

You are not only ignorant I feel, but have a racist intent.
 

DarkThinker

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Proof please? And even if that was true, I would say they get filtered not because of racism in higher numbers because "too many black actors" in an American movie usually in most cases would reflect a false demographic (again unless it's a specific topic) and thereby reducing the realism of the movie itself.

How about you provide proof otherwise? It's clear you are in an argument where you have no fking clue on. Take a look around play tryouts and acting classes. It's going to be based on what YOUR DEMOGRAPHIC is on where you live, but you will see just as many black, spanish and white people trying out.

You can also find interviews with black actors that made it that talk about how hard it was to get roles.

Also more than just 'black' people watch BET.

You are not only ignorant I feel, but have a racist intent.

YOU ARE CALLING ME IGNORANT?? WHY BECAUSE I AM POINTING OUT WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DENY?
TELL ME PEOPLE, WHERE THE FSCK DID I SAY THAT ALL BLACK PEOPLE WATCH BET?????

Lets see who is the ignorant and racist one:

My post:
Things like BET this movie and other stuff send the wrong messages to the black community, a message of isolation and racism.

So a message of racism is wrong according to my post, I would like to see black actors in movies, but not just because they are black but because they fit their respective parts and hence why I said:
It is not to say that all white movies and shows are fine with me, but I like to see things follow natural proportions(except for special cases when the movie / show requires a certain ethnic group).

If I were truly a racist like how you were so proposing then how did you arrive at that conclusion from what I posted?

Second thing, It's called Black Entertainment Television, it caters mainly to black viewers, almost all it's employees are black and a good proportion of it's viewers are black. What? Do you want me to bring forth evidence about that too? I will go through the trouble if you want me to.

And you want me to provide proof of what? I am stating facts buddy, whites are the majority and if you don't like that fact, move to Jamaica for all I care, this is not something that requires further proof than looking out of the window and sampling some demographic data about where you are and what is the population made out of.

That's the problem with people like you, you can't even have a civilized discussion with others! You want to assert your point about race and when someone speaks their mind and how they see things without insulting anyone you bash them to keep them quiet.

Here is a news flash for you : African-Americans compose ~ %12 of the total population!
Just think how many of the ~%12 will get a shot at a good education and how many of those will go into acting and film, and how many of those will go to schools that will give them the proper qualifications to land parts in the big movies. I am going to be VERY VERY generous and throw in an imaginary number like say %20 of all African Americans get a chance to go to good acting schools to get the proper qualifications for big parts, so that's %20 of the %12, imagine that 2 out of 10 black people not only in acting and film but good acting and film schools. The problem with the argument of people like you is that you want African-Americans to get something like %90 of the parts and others to see it as something normal, it might be OK but it's not logical. It's a race-biased view and would produce crappy movies because realism and qualifications meters would be way off. Quantity doesn't get you quality, trust me having only one black actor that is well qualified for his part (i.e Morgan Freema) in a movie is better than having 10 that are not.

You see the problem with almost all black movies is that they just don't attract the majority of the audience, in general Black movies try to focus on things that blacks usually like, which is fine, except the majority of the audience would like something a bit more general and with a broader more realistic message.

Here is a post from someone who actually even liked the movie and I am sure wouldn't qualify as a racist from what he posted:

Originally posted by: krunchykrome
:thumbsup: good movie

although, I've never seen soo many fur coats and references to god in one movie, in my life.

That's just to show that usually black movies have their own "theme", though there are non-blacks that wouldn't mind it (krunchykrome), I (and dare say others) would find it quiet annoying hence why I wouldn't watch it.

This reminds me of stand up comedians. Amongst my top favorite black stand up comedians are Eddie Griffin, Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle, those are some funny guys, especially Eddie I think he is the funniest (BTW I was just watching Undercover Brother yesterday on comedy central and I loved it). Stand up comedians are the perfect example to bring into this argument. Think about it, an overwhelming majority of black stand up comedians devote the majority of their time talking about their race and stuff that relates to blacks and so on. Which is fine except that it becomes old and unoriginal, meanwhile white comedians for the most part excel at talking about life in general. And I believe that many producers that make black only movies tend to follow the same trend in most of their productions, which is catering to black specific topics which alienated a good number of potential viewers who are not interested
in watching people in fury coats and Escalades because they already get a good dose of that in the streets.

BTW, I like your smart touch at the beginning of the OP:
Racists won't like this movie..
You kind of hinted indirectly that if anyone posts against the movie here might possibly be a racist and which is why I am being labeled a racist.

Way to go Sherlock!
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Second thing, It's called Black Entertainment Television, it caters mainly to black viewers, almost all it's employees are black and a good proportion of it's viewers are black. What? Do you want me to bring forth evidence about that too? I will go through the trouble if you want me to.

This is about the only fact you have...unfortunately it doesn't prove the channel encourages poor behavior in people.

Originally posted by: DarkThinker
And you want me to provide proof of what? I am stating facts buddy, whites are the majority and if you don't like that fact, move to Jamaica for all I care, this is not something that requires further proof than looking out of the window and sampling some demographic data about where you are and what is the population made out of.

That statement is racist whether you know it our not. Majority is a given, but does that make black people not want to be actors?

Your argument is based on proving racist tendancies. So no matter how you try and hash it out racism is at the root of the problem.

Proportionally speaking you can group people into pretty good demographics. That population count apart will pretty much be equal based on percent of populations.

I am white by the way in case you are thinking otherwise.
 

Chryso

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
For a long time blacks on screen were played by whites in makeup.

How long is a long time? When was the last time this occurred?


Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: DarkThinker
Proof please? And even if that was true, I would say they get filtered not because of racism in higher numbers because "too many black actors" in an American movie usually in most cases would reflect a false demographic (again unless it's a specific topic) and thereby reducing the realism of the movie itself.

How about you provide proof otherwise?

You made the statement. You have to provide the proof.
You can't just say any crazy thing you like, not back it up and then tell others they have to prove you wrong and expect to get away with it.