I also don't find it help when statements like inferior platform, much higher power consumption and worse at everything are thrown out without an quantitative measurements.
If either a X570 with a Zen3 or a Z490 and 10900k work perfectly fine with the power supply and cooling on hand, power usage is at the bottom of the list. Important in a laptop or a SSF chassis potentially but that's not a concern.
As far as platform, the only difference I see between the boards is PCIE 4 which I've yet to see any meaningful impact, especially with games. My 3970X with RAID 0 NVMe drives isn't any faster day to day than a single 970 Evo Plus in the Intel systems. When it comes to WiFi 6 or LAN the Intel based boards on both sides have been much more reliable in my use. Zen 1 and 2 where much more picky with RAM so I had to be much more selective there and the onboard Realtek USB controllers are a pain.
The everything else is worse is also highly focused on specific apps or lines of work which I have found meaningless in my daily life. I spend way more time coding than compiling, barely have time for messing with photos or videos and the majority of work is cloud based.
So maybe that's a bias towards what fits my needs, but I also build at least 2 desktops a year for myself and have touched pretty much every Intel and most AMD platforms in the last 20+ years. Not in a condensed manor that we get in reviews or YouTube videos, but living with them on a daily basis. I'm finding that the big Zen 3 jump, while impressive, hasn't unlocked that much for me, compared to prior advancements in x86 like multi-core, x64 and Zen CCX. Things that AMD gave the consumer market and really changed expectations.