Right Or Wrong? (Sexual Ethics)

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Isla

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So.

Let's say a husband and wife agree to sex once or twice a week. This isn't really enough for the husband but it is more than enough for the wife. The wife complies as graciously and pleasantly as possible, but again, once or twice a week.

It's been 48 hours. Wife is VERY tired. Wife just wants to go to sleep, and very kindly says, "No sweetheart, I'm sorry, but I need to sleep".


2AM. Wife wakes up to being porked in her sleep.

Right? Why?

Wrong? Why?

Please vote in the poll and let me know what you think about situations such as this.
 
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Whisper

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Looks like they need to come up with some sort of arrangement that better meets the husband's needs...because this one obviously isn't working.

But no, it's not right to git it on without the other person being consciously aware of the act.
 
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dquan97

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Well, consideration to the wife has to be taken in great respect, because genuine tiredness is one of the things that supersedes any "urges."
 
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lowtech1

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Originally posted by: Isla
So.

Let's say a husband and wife agree to sex once or twice a week. This isn't really enough for the husband but it is more than enough for the wife. The wife complies as graciously and pleasantly as possible, but again, once or twice a week.

It's been 48 hours. Wife is VERY tired. Wife just wants to go to sleep, and very kindly says, "No sweetheart, I'm sorry, but I need to sleep".


2AM. Wife wakes up to being porked in her sleep.

Right? Why?

Wrong? Why?

Please vote in the poll and let me know what you think about situations such as this.
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LOL

How can you come up with all of these controversial topics?
 
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filmmaker

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Originally posted by: Whisper
Looks like they need to come up with some sort of arrangement that better meets the husband's needs...because this one obviously isn't working.

But no, it's not right to git it on without the other person being consciously aware of the act.
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I agree with this
 
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SilverThief

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Techinically thats a no-no. I think the wife has every right to be pissed.
You said porked. hehehe

 
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MrDingleDangle

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Originally posted by: Whisper
Looks like they need to come up with some sort of arrangement that better meets the husband's needs...because this one obviously isn't working.

But no, it's not right to git it on without the other person being consciously aware of the act.
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agreed...
 
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Crimzon

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I voted no... but I wouldn't be surprised if Husband stops bugging Wife soon about it. ie, He went outside of marriage.
 
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crumpet19

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Well, I'm not married.. and right now I'm single. But, I would say that its wrong. It should be a mutual decsicion between two consenting people. Both should be able to attain some sort of pleasure out of it. Besides, if the husband did that then he's simply taking advantage of the wife. He's, in a way, using her.
 
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notfred

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The answer isn't so much right or wrong as "annoying" unless he actually forcibly raped her, which would be wrong.

However, such a couple sounds like they have one hell of a sh!tty sex life if they actually have to come up with a schedule for when to have sex.
 
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PatboyX

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i think its strange that they "agreed" to have sex a certain amount of times in one week.

 
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djheater

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Originally posted by: filmmaker
Originally posted by: Whisper
Looks like they need to come up with some sort of arrangement that better meets the husband's needs...because this one obviously isn't working.

But no, it's not right to git it on without the other person being consciously aware of the act.
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I agree with this
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Indeed.

Sounds a lot like rape, actually.

 
DougK62

DougK62

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Yikes. This is obviously very wrong. Sexual activities that are not mutually consensual are ALWAYS wrong in my book.

I'd be pretty upset if I was on the non-consenting end.

Your use of "porked" is making me chuckle :D

 
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Spooner

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Originally posted by: PatboyX
i think its strange that they "agreed" to have sex a certain amount of times in one week.
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yeah, like it's a chore
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Isla

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Originally posted by: crumpet19
Well, I'm not married.. and right now I'm single. But, I would say that its wrong. It should be a mutual decsicion between two consenting people. Both should be able to attain some sort of pleasure out of it. Besides, if the husband did that then he's simply taking advantage of the wife. He's, in a way, using her.
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That's what I think. This particular husband has been told that it's OK to masturbate. Use porn, not wife.

BTW, once or twice a week is considered pretty regular.
 
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n0cmonkey

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If the wife cannot provide enough satisfaction for the man, he should descreetly find other outlets to suppliment the loved one.
 
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XZeroII

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What kind of sick person need sex more than twice a week? If you need it that much, you need help.
 
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Isla

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Originally posted by: Spooner
Originally posted by: PatboyX
i think its strange that they "agreed" to have sex a certain amount of times in one week.
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yeah, like it's a chore
rolleye.gif
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I take it you do not have children, a mortgage, etc etc.
 
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codeyf

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Originally posted by: lowtech
Originally posted by: Isla
So.

Let's say a husband and wife agree to sex once or twice a week. This isn't really enough for the husband but it is more than enough for the wife. The wife complies as graciously and pleasantly as possible, but again, once or twice a week.

It's been 48 hours. Wife is VERY tired. Wife just wants to go to sleep, and very kindly says, "No sweetheart, I'm sorry, but I need to sleep".


2AM. Wife wakes up to being porked in her sleep.

Right? Why?

Wrong? Why?

Please vote in the poll and let me know what you think about situations such as this.
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heh, that's the only thing I could think of too when reading this!

On a side note, my wife likes to be woken/waken? up with some, uh, action. Says it's nice cuz at that time, her mind is completely clear and she's not trying to switch gears from what was already on her mind to gettin it on. When it starts happenin in the middle of the night, she's able to focus on the task at hand! Which means more :Q for the both of us!

So, in my case, I'm gonna answer yes.
 
Lithium381

Lithium381

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i think it's wrong, that he takes it upon himself to make the decision for both of them ...... not good
 
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