so heres the story...
my friend was havin people over at her (lets call her friend a) apartment at her college which is about an hour away from me (50 miles). She said she was having several people over to drink and just chill at her apt, she asked me if i would pitch in for some beer, i said sure whatever. and I agreed to come down, but I also made plans with some girl to go out on a lil date (lets call her girl z). So I come down to the school pick up girl Z and end up staying with her till about 1am in the morning by the time i get to girl a's house she was gettin ready for bed and the "party" was over. I chilled with her for a bit then headed home. Several days later she asks me for 6$ for my share of the beer, I said no prob ill give it to you next time I see you. She says she wants it now because she has to repay her roomate, I said well Im busy and cant just drive 50 miles to give u 6$ and I dont write checks, but I can paypal the money. She dosent have a paypal account, and processed to bother me about gettin the money for the next several days, At first I had no problem giving it to her but just after the fact that she kept askin me for it i got pissed and said ok, so what exactly am i paying for? where is this beer that i didnt even drink? I asked her where my beer is, she said her roomate is takin it home with her, And i said im not paying unless i get my beer., she says I have to pay anyways because her roomate took the time to go pick it up for me, I replied and said I thought everyone was drinking and I didnt not specifically ask for anything. she said her roomate and bf were drinkin somethin different and the beer she had to go to a different bar for to get for me and girl A. I said well i didnt really ask for the beer and even if she had to go to a bar to get it, it coudnt have inconvienced her that much, and that if she gives me the beer id gladly give her the money, but it looks like thats not good enough and she just wants my money while she drinks my beer! Am i being a jerk here? or is girl A being an asshole?
*cliffs*
-friend has party and asks me to chip in for beer that I will drink
-I come to party to late
-i dont see or drink any beer
-friend asks me for money several days later for beer, i said I will pay her next time i see her or i can paypal her money
-friend wants me to pay for beer because she was inconvienced by having to get it for me, but she will not give me the beer that i was supposed to drink
-should i pay her?
my friend was havin people over at her (lets call her friend a) apartment at her college which is about an hour away from me (50 miles). She said she was having several people over to drink and just chill at her apt, she asked me if i would pitch in for some beer, i said sure whatever. and I agreed to come down, but I also made plans with some girl to go out on a lil date (lets call her girl z). So I come down to the school pick up girl Z and end up staying with her till about 1am in the morning by the time i get to girl a's house she was gettin ready for bed and the "party" was over. I chilled with her for a bit then headed home. Several days later she asks me for 6$ for my share of the beer, I said no prob ill give it to you next time I see you. She says she wants it now because she has to repay her roomate, I said well Im busy and cant just drive 50 miles to give u 6$ and I dont write checks, but I can paypal the money. She dosent have a paypal account, and processed to bother me about gettin the money for the next several days, At first I had no problem giving it to her but just after the fact that she kept askin me for it i got pissed and said ok, so what exactly am i paying for? where is this beer that i didnt even drink? I asked her where my beer is, she said her roomate is takin it home with her, And i said im not paying unless i get my beer., she says I have to pay anyways because her roomate took the time to go pick it up for me, I replied and said I thought everyone was drinking and I didnt not specifically ask for anything. she said her roomate and bf were drinkin somethin different and the beer she had to go to a different bar for to get for me and girl A. I said well i didnt really ask for the beer and even if she had to go to a bar to get it, it coudnt have inconvienced her that much, and that if she gives me the beer id gladly give her the money, but it looks like thats not good enough and she just wants my money while she drinks my beer! Am i being a jerk here? or is girl A being an asshole?
*cliffs*
-friend has party and asks me to chip in for beer that I will drink
-I come to party to late
-i dont see or drink any beer
-friend asks me for money several days later for beer, i said I will pay her next time i see her or i can paypal her money
-friend wants me to pay for beer because she was inconvienced by having to get it for me, but she will not give me the beer that i was supposed to drink
-should i pay her?
