You might want to check yourself, Moonie. Loss of freedom and time is the cruelest punishment of all.Originally posted by: Moonbeam
I think perhaps you missed my point. Years are an artifice not in knowing the difference between an infant and an adult, but between knowing which 16 or 17 or 18 year old is a child or an adult. To base that analysis simply on age is to draw a line that doesn't exist. And the notion of personal responsibility is out the window if the adult never became an adult. Because a body is mature does not mean the mind ever grew up. In other words to assign blame to parent or child is equally silly. Humanity is ill and it's not any body's fault. There is no such thing as personal responsibility. That is an excuse that people who were tortured and now enjoy torturing other human beings tell themselves to justify their actions. The only action that is proper and demanded is that people not act out their illness. If they do they must be stopped and then offered treatment. The only punishment required is the loss of freedom to act out. And that is done not as punishment but to protect innocent people. The need to punish arises out of the pain of being punished as a child for expressing real feelings, the pain of being made to feel evil for being real and then to have to adopt the phony mask of whatever ever shifting good the parents demanded. We hate the other, the criminal because he does what we feel. He brings our our hate for ourselves. No self hate, no desire to punish,,,,just that simple.
Originally posted by: Vic
You might want to check yourself, Moonie. Loss of freedom and time is the cruelest punishment of all.Originally posted by: Moonbeam
I think perhaps you missed my point. Years are an artifice not in knowing the difference between an infant and an adult, but between knowing which 16 or 17 or 18 year old is a child or an adult. To base that analysis simply on age is to draw a line that doesn't exist. And the notion of personal responsibility is out the window if the adult never became an adult. Because a body is mature does not mean the mind ever grew up. In other words to assign blame to parent or child is equally silly. Humanity is ill and it's not any body's fault. There is no such thing as personal responsibility. That is an excuse that people who were tortured and now enjoy torturing other human beings tell themselves to justify their actions. The only action that is proper and demanded is that people not act out their illness. If they do they must be stopped and then offered treatment. The only punishment required is the loss of freedom to act out. And that is done not as punishment but to protect innocent people. The need to punish arises out of the pain of being punished as a child for expressing real feelings, the pain of being made to feel evil for being real and then to have to adopt the phony mask of whatever ever shifting good the parents demanded. We hate the other, the criminal because he does what we feel. He brings our our hate for ourselves. No self hate, no desire to punish,,,,just that simple.
Well, Moonie, as I've tried to explain before, we have a fundamental difference in communication. You believe that a single-minded entity named "we" or "humanity" actually exists, and I do not. There is no "we," just your "I" and my "I" and everyone else's "I". When all of our "I's" recognize the sovereignty of each other "I" and the love and respect that each deserves (simply for being an "I"), then we will be able to more properly focus on raising more proper children (among other pressing issues). That is this personal responsibility you say doesn't exist, and why I see your "we" mentality as a step backwards for our mass of "I's".Originally posted by: Moonbeam
OK I am checking: What exactly do you mean? You have made a statement. To what and where do you intend it to apply. On one hand loss of f and t are not as cruel as loss of f and t plus torture or torture and death. On the other, what do you propose to do with people who act out. If you are proposing that the focus should be on raising proper children I'm all for that but we are where we are and we also have to deal with that. It would be nice if you could put a little detail and effort in your response, some clues to where you are going sometimes.
That is a bit clearer I guess. You want to see we in an esoteric way and I just use it in an every day sort of way. I see, i think a little bit, how important that distinction is to you, however, and don't think I disagree with it. I guess, however, for every position or stance one can take there is a corresponding disease and for you it would be the disease of individualism or ego, the notion that you are somehow special because you are unique. I would tend more to see that we are all the same, created in the Image of God. The recognition of sovereignty would come from seeing in the other yourself. The facets of a gem are all gem. And I guess the disease you fear in the we is collectivism or some enforced egalitarianism. These opposites resolve in my opinion in the higher understanding I proposed, that the I and the we are aspects of God or the True Self.Originally posted by: Vic
Well, Moonie, as I've tried to explain before, we have a fundamental difference in communication. You believe that a single-minded entity named "we" or "humanity" actually exists, and I do not. There is no "we," just your "I" and my "I" and everyone else's "I". When all of our "I's" recognize the sovereignty of each other "I" and the love and respect that each deserves (simply for being an "I"), then we will be able to more properly focus on raising more proper children (among other pressing issues). That is this personal responsibility you say doesn't exist, and why I see your "we" mentality as a step backwards for our mass of "I's".Originally posted by: Moonbeam
OK I am checking: What exactly do you mean? You have made a statement. To what and where do you intend it to apply. On one hand loss of f and t are not as cruel as loss of f and t plus torture or torture and death. On the other, what do you propose to do with people who act out. If you are proposing that the focus should be on raising proper children I'm all for that but we are where we are and we also have to deal with that. It would be nice if you could put a little detail and effort in your response, some clues to where you are going sometimes.
No, you misunderstand. It is not that my singlular "I" is unique and sovereign, it is that ALL of the "I's" on earth are unique and sovereign. Think Golden Rule morality. We are each of us unique, each us of special, each of us individual, each of us sovereign. Collectivism is not egalitarian or a higher understanding, it is a repression of individuality. An opinion that your "we's" should have the power to enforce its worldview over our "we's", for "our" own good. This is why you constantly speak of how we hate ourselves, and are diseased, and should submit, etc. Just like a preacher calling on his flock to repent and be born again, and for the same reason. This submission of individuality to another human is the abomination of self, the placing of another god before God. God is our individuality, our uniqueness each of us, and not our collectivism.Originally posted by: Moonbeam
That is a bit clearer I guess. You want to see we in an esoteric way and I just use it in an every day sort of way. I see, i think a little bit, how important that distinction is to you, however, and don't think I disagree with it. I guess, however, for every position or stance one can take there is a corresponding disease and for you it would be the disease of individualism or ego, the notion that you are somehow special because you are unique. I would tend more to see that we are all the same, created in the Image of God. The recognition of sovereignty would come from seeing in the other yourself. The facets of a gem are all gem. And I guess the disease you fear in the we is collectivism or some enforced egalitarianism. These opposites resolve in my opinion in the higher understanding I proposed, that the I and the we are aspects of God or the True Self.
Originally posted by: piasabird
Death Penalty makes the most sense in Juvenile cases. If you execute them at 16, then they are not a drain on society for the nexe 60 years. It makes good economic sense and it makes the world a lot safer for the rest of us.
Given these prevalent mentalities, it is no wonder to me that my words fall flat on deaf ears.Originally posted by: Cerb
If there is no 'we', then there is no system of laws for these kids to break, because you are alone, as is every other 'I'. But, we are not alone, and these systems do exist. The 'we', a collection of 'I's of somewhat like mind, made these systems. For the most part, the limits of actions imposed by these systems are based on those rules that a large proportion of people agree with. Those people are part of 'we'. A collective does not invalidate individuality in any way.
Well, that sucks. I would have liked to have read it. Naturally, I respect your opinion, Moonie, even when I occasionally find it most disagreeable.Originally posted by: Moonbeam
There is justice. I just lost my massive post.
Originally posted by: Vic
On all that, Moonie, I must respectfully disagree with your opinion. There is balance -- when each of us respects all others as ourself. I do not see in your collectivism that type of balance, because of your disregard of the notion of self upon which this mass mutual respect must be based on. Choice. There must always be choice. And that is where the personal responsibility comes into play as the most necessary thing of all. And you deny it. And on that (and the denigration of self you feel is necessary), we disagree entirely and permanently.
Wrong in your eyes, or wrong in theirs?Originally posted by: Vic
Given these prevalent mentalities, it is no wonder to me that my words fall flat on deaf ears.
If (for example) a thing is wrong, then the consensus of all humanity in believing it is right does not stop it from still being wrong.
Did you actually read my posts? My entire point was how about some have no right to decide for others. The sovereign right of individuals to decide for themselves, and the personal responsibility that must then come with that right of decision.Originally posted by: Cerb
Wrong in your eyes, or wrong in theirs?
You are not me. I am not you. You cannot decide what is right and wrong for me, and I cannot decide what is right and wrong for you. We can decide what clear limits we will set for our interaction, though, sucn that we do not do wrong by each other. This grows to a large scale, and you get societies.
Morality is relative. It is not relative to the situation, as 'relative morality' is generally used to mean. It is, however, relative to people, and groups of those people.
If what is right or wrong is solely to be decided by the individuals, without compromise among groups, then why don't we have a an anarchistic Utopia? Personal responsibility has little to do with it, unless you feel that taking credit for your own choices somehow enforces its own ethical code on a person.Originally posted by: Vic
Did you actually read my posts? My entire point was how about some have no right to decide for others. The sovereign right of individuals to decide for themselves, and the personal responsibility that must then come with that right of decision.Originally posted by: Cerb
Wrong in your eyes, or wrong in theirs?
You are not me. I am not you. You cannot decide what is right and wrong for me, and I cannot decide what is right and wrong for you. We can decide what clear limits we will set for our interaction, though, such that we do not do wrong by each other. This grows to a large scale, and you get societies.
Morality is relative. It is not relative to the situation, as 'relative morality' is generally used to mean. It is, however, relative to people, and groups of those people.
So, you know what is right is wrong for every person out there, and they cannot have something right for them that is wrong for you, or wrong for them, that is right for you?Morality OTOH is by no means relative.
I did not express, nor imply, that it did.Wrong does not become right with the changing of the hairstyles.
Utopia is foolish, and anarchy is not sustainable (as some thug will always quickly rise to the top as a dictator). People enact governments to protect their individual rights, and those governments then exist with the consent of the governed. The "I" does not serve the "we", the "we" serves the "I".Originally posted by: Cerb
If what is right or wrong is solely to be decided by the individuals, without compromise among groups, then why don't we have a an anarchistic Utopia? Personal responsibility has little to do with it, unless you feel that taking credit for your own choices somehow enforces its own ethical code on a person.
Your conclusion that, if right and wrong are relative then one of the above example must then be wrong, is false. One person making a left turn and another making a right turn is not a lession in morality, it is simply choice. And as such, each must bear the consequences of their decision. That is personal responsibility.So, you know what is right is wrong for every person out there, and they cannot have something right for them that is wrong for you, or wrong for them, that is right for you?
Let's take abortion. Person A keeps her baby.
Person B has it aborted.
If right and wrong are not relative, then one of them is clearly wrong. If both are doing what is right for them, then what is right for one is not necessarily right for the other, and from that, what is right and what is wrong is relative to each of them.
Theft is a violation of individual rights. See above, government are enacted to protect such rights. That the violator(s) are then forced to recompense via punishment for their wrong act is not a wrong in itself. It is justice, i.e. the righting of a wrong. As 2 wrongs don't make a right, it is crucial that justice not be made into revenge, thus the punishment must be limited to recompensation only. Hence, "eye for eye, tooth for tooth." No one believes in that old crap anymore though, which is why our criminal justice system is so fscked up. <edit>And that's really what this thread is all about -- we thought it would be cool to practice revenge on children, were horrified by the results, and when we stopped were then marvelled... sigh</edit>However, let's take theft. No one like their belongings stolen. So, we agree on that--it is a violation of one's own rights. Then, as a large group, we decide to enforce that, by removing rights from those who have violated those rights of others; preferably in a roughly equivalent degree to the rights originally lost. That becomes a justice system, defined, run, enforced, and checked upon, not by a single person, but by a large group. A group, that might be represented by a pronoun, we, or us. If a group does not have the right to do this, then the overwhelming majority of states in the world are clearly in the 'wrong'. A justice system, which this topic is about, is entirely about enforcing the will of a large group upon that of a smaller group. It just tries to have noble goals.
It seemed to me that you did. Now I see that you are just confused on this matter. Not an uncommon thing these days.I did not express, nor imply, that it did.
Why does the 'we' need to serve the 'I', or the 'I' need to serve the 'we'? If the 'I' is not serving the 'we', then the 'we' can't do a very good job of serving the sets of 'I's.Originally posted by: Vic
Utopia is foolish, and anarchy is not sustainable (as some thug will always quickly rise to the top as a dictator). People enact governments to protect their individual rights, and those governments then exist with the consent of the governed. The "I" does not serve the "we", the "we" serves the "I".Originally posted by: Cerb
If what is right or wrong is solely to be decided by the individuals, without compromise among groups, then why don't we have a an anarchistic Utopia? Personal responsibility has little to do with it, unless you feel that taking credit for your own choices somehow enforces its own ethical code on a person.
What is right, and what is wrong, are choices. But, what is it that makes one choice right, and another wrong? If what is right and what is wrong does not differ between people, why is one choice good for one person, and another choice good for another?Your conclusion that, if right and wrong are relative then one of the above example must then be wrong, is false. One person making a left turn and another making a right turn is not a lession in morality, it is simply choice. And as such, each must bear the consequences of their decision. That is personal responsibility.So, you know what is right is wrong for every person out there, and they cannot have something right for them that is wrong for you, or wrong for them, that is right for you?
Let's take abortion. Person A keeps her baby.
Person B has it aborted.
If right and wrong are not relative, then one of them is clearly wrong. If both are doing what is right for them, then what is right for one is not necessarily right for the other, and from that, what is right and what is wrong is relative to each of them.
Reparations would be righting a wrong. Justice is just handing out a punishment or reward based, impartially, on merit.Theft is a violation of individual rights. See above, government are enacted to protect such rights. That the violator(s) are then forced to recompense via punishment for their wrong act is not a wrong in itself. It is justice, i.e. the righting of a wrong.However, let's take theft. No one like their belongings stolen. So, we agree on that--it is a violation of one's own rights. Then, as a large group, we decide to enforce that, by removing rights from those who have violated those rights of others; preferably in a roughly equivalent degree to the rights originally lost. That becomes a justice system, defined, run, enforced, and checked upon, not by a single person, but by a large group. A group, that might be represented by a pronoun, we, or us. If a group does not have the right to do this, then the overwhelming majority of states in the world are clearly in the 'wrong'. A justice system, which this topic is about, is entirely about enforcing the will of a large group upon that of a smaller group. It just tries to have noble goals.
Some people were horrified by the results. Some people. Others still believe in a kind of White Man's Burden mess.As 2 wrongs don't make a right, it is crucial that justice not be made into revenge, thus the punishment must be limited to recompensation only. Hence, "eye for eye, tooth for tooth." No one believes in that old crap anymore though, which is why our criminal justice system is so fscked up. (edit)And that's really what this thread is all about -- we thought it would be cool to practice revenge on children, were horrified by the results, and when we stopped were then marvelled... sigh(/edit)
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First, where did I express such a thing? Second, why is it that a person having a different code than yours is different than the individual having a right to decide for themselves, save that I've gone on and figured that they have already made a decision?It seemed to me that you did. Now I see that you are just confused on this matter. Not an uncommon thing these days.I did not express, nor imply, that it did.
Originally posted by: BoberFett
Imprisonment should be reserved for violent offenders, regardless of age. Imprisonment is required for those that pose an actual danger to society. Other crimes should simply be dealt with through public service.
Make a thief spend hundreds of hours working for free for the community. Maybe then he'll understand what it's like to see ones time and effort being stolen.
Edit: LOL, guess I should have read the entire thread before posting. This thread is no longer about juvenile punishment.![]()
