I used welfare when my daughter first arrived. Without the help I probbably wouldn't have been able to afford formula. 9 months (6 in our case, we didn't find out until the 3rd month) isn't a very long time to go from being a complete slacker to a responsible parent, and welfare provides a cushion for that. I don't use it anymore and haven't needed it for a long time, but without it I doubt I would have been able to get where I am right now.
Contrary to what you believe, a lot of people don't abuse the system. They use it the way it was intended to be used.
Contrary to what you believe, a lot of people don't abuse the system. They use it the way it was intended to be used.