I appreciate all the info. Sorry for disappearing for a while (long day at work, trying to sleep, not working. it is 2a after all)
I am a complete novice to bikes. I've done quads on occasion, but i still wouldn't even say my knowledge is much higher on motorcycles as a whole. I mentioned sports bike as a saying of almost anything but a Harley style motorcycle. Mainly, its because I've seen 3 harleys get whacked by a bad driver who either didnt move over (I always do, even if theres no one next to me, just to be nice) or because the guy on the bike thought he could fit somewhere I knew he couldn't. I've only seen 1 sports bike hit one car (the driver pulled in front of him, and instead of just getting clear like he should have in the 400ft he had, he put up his hands in a WTF motion, and the van couldnt go anywhere, he swerved last second, took off his own mirror).
I do plan to take a training course of sorts as the wife requires it. She's scared I'll kill myself. I pride myself on being a good driver as a whole. I can judge gaps to within a few inches and fit my 84 Toyota 3/4ton long bed into them without issue and I also tend to learn the vehicle I'm driving before I test any limits on it. With that, I wouldn't be afraid of getting a 500-600cc sports bike, in the true sense of the word, as I dont think I'd go wild on the throttle or go beyond my limits in any manner. On the other hand, I noticed MiataNCs post of the V-Strom and that seems like it'd be along the lines of something that would both please the wife, and make the ride a bit more comfortable. Number 4 on his list was a kicker, as it is true. Insurance in cali is absurd, but knowing how many of my friends have been in accidents, had tickets, had cars impounded for reckless driving and so on, I'm not surprised at all.
Thanks for all the info though, I do appreciate it. I think what I'll look to do is something like the V-Strom. Then I can see about getting my hands on an actual sports bike a year or 2 down the line when I have more experience and the wife is more comfortable (but, being that I'll probably like the more comfortable [looking] ride on the V-Strom, I'll probably keep it).
And with that, I think I found a new place to post. I wasn't expecting so many responses so quickly, so it ought to be nice to have an active forum to post on again.
Thanks again,
--pyr0