SociallyChallenged
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You are right. It is the pressing that is causing the issues. I have no problems with any type of pulling/rowing motion and am actually back to pre-injury strength with my back workouts.
I will heed your advice and just lay off the chest stuff. If I had the range of motion, I would be satisfied with just doing squats/deadlifts 3x a week with jogging on my off days.
One realization I have come to through all of this, and this is a personality thing for me, is that I have put every ounce of effort and will into lifting weights to the detriment of any other type of fitness. I have always been very intense and an everything or nothing type person, which has been why I have been successful in my endeavors. I refuse to give up and just take the pain and abuse that comes as result. But by doing so, I am taking years off of my life. I feel in many ways, both personal, health-wise, and professional that I am at a crossroads and the decisions I make from here on out there will be no coming back from.
While, I will always consider myself a weightlifter/powerlifter first and foremost, I want to be able to run a 7 minute mile without having a heart attack or get tendonitis in my knee after two weeks of a noobie jogging program.
I need to recover from my injuries and find new ways to challenge myself because I HAVE to challenge myself. That is the only way I feel alive.
It's insane how similar we are. I feel the exact same way when it comes to challenging myself physically. I'm also in the same boat with a surplus of injuries because of it (SI joint dysfunction, rib pathology, just got over thoracic spine stuff, bicep tendonitis, wrist flexor tendonitis, tricep strains). You've gotta take a step back, work on everything else, and come back slow. If you only start with kneeling pushups and work from there, you're still improving. Even standing wall push-ups are a place to start. You've gotta keep using those muscles, but definitely not to the significant degree that you want to.
I, too, enjoy lifting very much... but right now I can't do it. So in the meantime, I bike. It's not the same, but I know it's something that will get me back to my goals. Think of the other lifts the same way. You're still lifting, you're still in the gym. Just take your time with the press.