Question regarding beautiful women

[Ronstang]

But that's besides the point. It's like WHY OH WHY can't I have YOU!!! Or all of you!!! One of you each night!!! Oh the world is not fair, not fair at all!

The fact that you are asking this question is the reason you will never be like women like that.....YOU HAVE NO SELF CONFIDENCE!!!!!!! That is all it takes, women go for confident men....PERIOD. They are actually a lot less shallow than us so it isn't necessarily all about looks for them. They want to be the center of attention so they want a guy who commands attention from others. This is quite simple. Keep asking questions like this and you will be doomed to a life of masturbation....or ugly women with no self confidence just like yourself.

 

[Trygve]

Originally posted by: coldcut
Isn't it vice versa for the ladies? Ladies who can't have the good looking, rich guys because either they're taken or they're gay?

Pretty much; the most obvious difference that I've noticed is that women are more apt to devote considerable time to writing journals and/or erotica about it.

 

[Nocturnal]

Originally posted by: Ronstang

But that's besides the point. It's like WHY OH WHY can't I have YOU!!! Or all of you!!! One of you each night!!! Oh the world is not fair, not fair at all!

The fact that you are asking this question is the reason you will never be like women like that.....YOU HAVE NO SELF CONFIDENCE!!!!!!! That is all it takes, women go for confident men....PERIOD. They are actually a lot less shallow than us so it isn't necessarily all about looks for them. They want to be the center of attention so they want a guy who commands attention from others. This is quite simple. Keep asking questions like this and you will be doomed to a life of masturbation....or ugly women with no self confidence just like yourself.

How do you GAIN self-confidence? I'm overweight, lack motivation, lazy, etc. I have a membership to 24 Hour Fitness to get into shape but I don't even use it. I paid well over $500.00 for it too!

 

[idNut]

Originally posted by: Nocturnal

Originally posted by: Ronstang

But that's besides the point. It's like WHY OH WHY can't I have YOU!!! Or all of you!!! One of you each night!!! Oh the world is not fair, not fair at all!

The fact that you are asking this question is the reason you will never be like women like that.....YOU HAVE NO SELF CONFIDENCE!!!!!!! That is all it takes, women go for confident men....PERIOD. They are actually a lot less shallow than us so it isn't necessarily all about looks for them. They want to be the center of attention so they want a guy who commands attention from others. This is quite simple. Keep asking questions like this and you will be doomed to a life of masturbation....or ugly women with no self confidence just like yourself.

How do you GAIN self-confidence? I'm overweight, lack motivation, lazy, etc. I have a membership to 24 Hour Fitness to get into shape but I don't even use it. I paid well over $500.00 for it too!

Oh man, I'd jump all over that membership if I were you and overweight. I have nothing to do that's fun and active which is why I'm overweight. I've heard that if you're thin when you're younger, you lack the chance of being heavy in your later years. I'd like to lose some weight and experience that. Being fat has absolutely no positives unless the end of the world comes soon and there is a shortage of food. But then again, I guess people would shoot the fat people and eat them. Yep, scratch off the only possible positive, being fat has no positives.

 

[Schadenfreude]

You know the weirdest thing, at WallyWorld, I saw a dude, around my age (college) wearing a shirt for a club around my hometown - I walk over to him and talk to him without a problem . . . can I do that with any girls? Nooooo . . ..

 

[dolph]

because the hot girls are taken unless you know for a fact that you're one of the guys they're holding out for. by sole virtue of the fact that you're posting on atot, you're not one of those guys 😉

 

[alkemyst]

With women it's the package and the personality to me...to many eyecandy types are frigid due to their parents insanity at home.

My first wife was barbie...my friends were all trying to get me into therapy when I decided to divorce her.

When I am single, if I see someone that catches my eye and I have time I try to strike up a conversation...you can get a good idea in the first few words exchanged if it's headed anywhere (that chemistry thing)...otherwise I close it and move on.

There have been quite a few women I have noticed and my friends have said 'damn I'd love to hit that'...and I ended up taking her home/her home/car/bathroom/dark corner/etc when I thought possibly I'd be shot down...many times these types of women have no one even trying them.

However love is a way different set of criteria. My wife cooks for me when she's exhausted, looks out for me, etc...she's not an animal in bed by any means and I have upset her sometimes with myself, however we work at it and know where it is going and that is what it takes to be happy.

Sex will always be a temptation, but when it's all said and done it's really not that different from anyone else providing you aren't talking the extremes. I still get offers time to time and even after I say I am married...most of the time they are even more ready to go, the sad fact is almost 50% of males and females will have at least one infidelity while married. My first wife and I when we knew it was over, but still married would lie in bed and talk about the other people we were seeing and then ourselves have sex it was messed up but it was so much in flow with both of our high profile lives at the time.