Question for the ladies...

[OS]

Barry,

I suppose that would work, but I don't think I could emotionally abuse someone like that.

 

[dafatha00]

SO WHAT THE HELL DO GIRLS WANT!!! i really still don't know... a healthy combination of being a jerk and a nice guy? argh...i think i'm too nice at times and i seriously regret it later...most girls tell me that they go for all the jerks when they're young but they settle down with the nice guys

 

[geno]

<< I mean I could treat a women like a queen but she'd rather have the crap beat out of her by a drunk bastard, can any of you explain this to me perhaps? >>


Wow, I know exactly how you feel. 2, count em -2- girls have passed me by that I would've treated like a queen. I always tell them that their man ain't sh!t, but they're just too damn attached...I dunno why. It's one of those mysteries of the world that we'll never know, some women just don't realize that they could have something better.

 

[shiner]

Because women are suck! Just give up on relationships and have a good time. Hell....go get yourself a prostitute. Sure you have to pay them for sex but at least they are up front about it.




















Ok...maybe I'm just bitter because the woman I have been seeing seriously for a while now can't make up her damn mind about getting married or now.

 

[montanafan]

Many girls(notice I did not say women) are attracted to the jerks because they fit into at least one of serveral categories:

1. They are young.
2. They have little to no self-esteem.
3. They started dating young but with an older guy and have been manipulated into thinking that the guy should be the boss by the kinds of guys who date much younger naive girls who they can boss around easily. Really messes the girl up though.
4. They have seen this sort of behavior at home and think it's just the way it is.
5. They did not have a father at home growing up and are looking for a father figure.
6. They think the deseve it; otherwise, why would he do it?
7. It's their maternal nurturing hormones kicking in at the same time as their sexual ones. They think they can help him and change him.
8. They actually think that his possessiveness and controlling behavior are signs of how much he &quot;loves&quot; her. They don't know of mutual respect.
9. Maybe a little of what BOBBY RIBBS said, but only if their brain did not evolve much beyond the ape or chimpanzee stage. (BTW, I'm a Creationist)
10. It's what popular culture spews at them constantly through romance novels, movies, TV, and music videos.

If she's attracted to that kind of guy, she will either grow out of it and love and appreciate the nice guy in her life that she finally ends up with all the more. Or she will never meet you and it will be her loss, but not yours, because she would never be able to be the wonderful partner to you that Viper GTS so eloquently described.

 

[eakers]

love makes you crazy.

*fortune cookie. <--kat.