question for men, does this make sense?

[BlamoHammer]

Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
no, he had a good time. I got that much from the guy next door. His exact words were I give good (insert word) and he had a good time. I guess I am nervous b/c I didn't ask him the next morning, but I was going on 3 hours sleep and had an hour drive ahead of me, I wasn't thinking straight. So I was jsut like I had a good time, good luck, hope you don't get sent off to war. We kissed and hugged, and that was the end of it.

But I am a female, and above all we fear rejection. So I have IMed him 2x now, and gotten no response. Of course it was after he'd gone Idle (he doesn't put up away messages) But now we are both on, and nothing. And i have too much pride to IM him again. So I guess my only resport is to wait or talk to the guy next door.

Oh, and my other fear.. I hate being a one night stand. Not that it was offically that, and I have done it to guys before, but it feels different on the other side of the fence.

I would say this is the reason tha he's not calling you. I dont mean to bring a down but most guys dont call one night stands back.

 

[XCLAN]

to be honest with you hun, If i had a 1 night stand with a girl....odds are i wouldnt ever talk to her again{never done this b4}..and also if i really like a girl a lot. i would most defineately not have sex the first few dates....for a couple reasons. One to let her know that i am serious about our relationship. 2 to not make myself look like a horndog{wich i sometimes am guilty of, but have always been able to hide it } And 3 in fear to run her off.....
just My opinion.....
Any guy that has done this too you hun is not worth yer time.

 

[Reel]

I say post his AIM name here and let us message him. Though this might be better as a closing gesture than an opening one.

 

[dquan97]

Originally posted by: XCLAN
to be honest with you hun, If i had a 1 night stand with a girl....odds are i wouldnt ever talk to her again{never done this b4}..and also if i really like a girl a lot. i would most defineately not have sex the first few dates....for a couple reasons. One to let her know that i am serious about our relationship. 2 to not make myself look like a horndog{wich i sometimes am guilty of, but have always been able to hide it } And 3 in fear to run her off.....
just My opinion.....
Any guy that has done this too you hun is not worth yer time.

Any guy who initiates that on the first date is either: looking for a one-night stand, or would be interested only with a relationship with your body.

 

[Hoober]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
Tell his friend that you want to talk to the guy, so tell him to call you or IM you or whatever it is you hip-kids do these days!

Back when I was in school, we just said "Hi, how you doin? Blah-blah-blah" and if it was good to go, you'd know it.

Good luck.

Do they still have telephones these days? You could just get his number and give him a call.

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: eakers
i'd give up.

if he can't take all of 5 seconds to im you back then what kind of guy is he?

edit: i guess now that i've posted in this thread i'm a man

grrrrrrrrr

look at my penis and look at me crush this beer can on my head, so on and so forth

Wow that is a big penis...

 

[yowolabi]

At first I was thinking that there was definitely a logical reason why he hadn't messaged you back.

Then after I caught on that you guys made contact during the night, I'm pretty sure he's just avoiding you. If he had any interest in staying in touch with you after that night, then he would have asked his friend about you and tried to contact you.

The best thing for you is to just make sure your next door neighbor knows to give him your SN just in case there is some horrible miscommunication, and then try to forget about him. I don't know if you understand this or not, but if you want something lasting, it's best not to have sexual acts on the first night.

 

[Hoober]

Originally posted by: yowolabi
At first I was thinking that there was definitely a logical reason why he hadn't messaged you back.

Then after I caught on that you guys made contact during the night, I'm pretty sure he's just avoiding you. If he had any interest in staying in touch with you after that night, then he would have asked his friend about you and tried to contact you.

The best thing for you is to just make sure your next door neighbor knows to give him your SN just in case there is some horrible miscommunication, and then try to forget about him. I don't know if you understand this or not, but if you want something lasting, it's best not to have sexual acts on the first night.

Definitely good advice.

 

[UNCjigga]

I know we have flamebait threads all the time...can we call this one a 'cockbait' thread? Random girl I've never seen post talkin about how she gave head to someone who's number she didn't know ("but I'm not wasy!") and trying to get advice from GUYS and not other girls...

 

[tikwanleap]

Originally posted by: WinkOsmosis

Originally posted by: eakers
i'd give up.

if he can't take all of 5 seconds to im you back then what kind of guy is he?

edit: i guess now that i've posted in this thread i'm a man

grrrrrrrrr

look at my penis and look at me crush this beer can on my head, so on and so forth

Wow that is a big penis...

:Q

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: StormRider
He might have been too busy looking at porn to notice your IM.

 

[conjur]

uhhh

Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
no, he had a good time. I got that much from the guy next door. His exact words were I give good (insert word) and he had a good time.

uhhh...

We had a great time, and hit it right off. He actually ended up staying with in my room that night (no I was not wasy!) but still

uhhh...


Is your last name Clinton?

 

[StormRider]

I just thought of something. Does he have a tiny penis? Because if he did then this could explain why he didn't respond to your IM. He might have been embarrassed about his shortcoming and thought you were calling him because you "felt sorry for him". He probably doesn't think it's possible that a girl could actually like someone like him so he didn't respond to spare you the torture of being with him.