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Question about lovemaking

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tjaisv

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In general, are there any specific outward physiological signs that indicate when a woman climaxes or has climaxed? Or is it just more a subjective psychological response that can't be measured?

I'm asking this because in the few lovemaking experiences i've had i've never been able to tell and would always wonder whenever i didn't flat out just ask my partner. And i'm judging this is probably a common issue too for guys in general.

So hopefully a few of u out there will have a useful reply. Any good article links would be appreciated too. 😎
 
the "specific outward physiological signs" will vary (in specifics) from one girl to the next. in general it's usually very obvious.


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You should be able to tell...

Now I dont know if they are faking it but if she did...she did a damn good job. You should be able to tell in multiple ways.
 
The easiest way to tell is to ask if you can borrow $300 right after you finish. If she says yes, she had at least one.
 
Flush of color in the chest on top or just above the breasts.
Increased fluid from below
Pulsing/squeezing sensations down below
If she stays in bed with you and looks really content/happy..

Those are some of the most common signs with most women.
 
Originally posted by: tjaisv
In general, are there any specific outward physiological signs that indicate when a woman climaxes or has climaxed? Or is it just more a subjective psychological response that can't be measured?

I'm asking this because in the few lovemaking experiences i've had i've never been able to tell and would always wonder whenever i didn't flat out just ask my partner. And i'm judging this is probably a common issue too for guys in general.

So hopefully a few of u out there will have a useful reply. Any good article links would be appreciated too. 😎
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If she relubes your knob, she's climaxed.
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
If you can't tell you didnt do a good enough job
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If your having to use KY in order to put it in and have to keep applying it due to the smoke getting too thick in the room, you may be a Sh!tty lover.

If your doing the nasty and shes doing a crossword puzzle, you may be a sh!tty lover.

You slip her 3 fingers and after 1 hour of foreplay they come back out as dry as they went in, you may be a sh!tty lover.

Really man if you cant tell a real one from a fake one your in deep deep trouble.
 
It's easy to tell if she climaxed - she'll ask you to fvck her again and again, instead of kicking your no-talent ass to the curb.
 
it doesnt matter...they are hookers after you have paid them what do you care 😛


but honeslty for the most part you can tell...do the ones your sketchy on at least keep coming back for more?
 
If the legs aren't shakin her libido ain't a quakin'

seriously though, no e-penis bragging here, but I've always been able to tell what gets a particular women off fairly quickly just from reading reactions to different positions. Some women, for example, can't climax in a doggy style position (very few can actually since cl1t stimulation is almost always a must for a woman to orgasm) but others will ONLY climax in that position.

As a rule of thumb, if she's on top it's easier for her to get there for a few reasons. Obviously you're in more, but mainly she has more control over the action and will do what she needs to do.

Hope I helped.

By the way, as someone said before, if you have to ask, it probably didn't happen. There are those few women who do it all quit when it happens, but usually most women are screamers.
 
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
If the legs aren't shakin her libido ain't a quakin'

seriously though, no e-penis bragging here, but I've always been able to tell what gets a particular women off fairly quickly just from reading reactions to different positions. Some women, for example, can't climax in a doggy style position (very few can actually since cl1t stimulation is almost always a must for a woman to orgasm) but others will ONLY climax in that position.

As a rule of thumb, if she's on top it's easier for her to get there for a few reasons. Obviously you're in more, but mainly she has more control over the action and will do what she needs to do.

Hope I helped.

By the way, as someone said before, if you have to ask, it probably didn't happen. There are those few women who do it all quit when it happens, but usually most women are screamers.
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Good post.

Some women are more discreet but you can still tell. Pay attention to her pace, if it starts going fasgter and harder and then slows down to a crawl, she probably just had one. Also as it's been mentioned pay attention to the sounds she's making.
 
Originally posted by: tjaisv
In general, are there any specific outward physiological signs that indicate when a woman climaxes or has climaxed? Or is it just more a subjective psychological response that can't be measured?

I'm asking this because in the few lovemaking experiences i've had i've never been able to tell and would always wonder whenever i didn't flat out just ask my partner. And i'm judging this is probably a common issue too for guys in general.

So hopefully a few of u out there will have a useful reply. Any good article links would be appreciated too. 😎
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ATOT Translation: Guys, how can I tell if my gf is "faking it"?
 
Originally posted by: DAGTA
Flush of color in the chest on top or just above the breasts.
Increased fluid from below
Pulsing/squeezing sensations down below
If she stays in bed with you and looks really content/happy..

Those are some of the most common signs with most women.
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Ok this is more what i was initially looking for.

As i had already kind of assumed, the physiological signs seem to me rather subtle and/or not clearly distinguishable from similar pre-climactic responses. For example, increased moisture and flushing are responses found at different stages, and things like pulsing/squeezing sensations might be difficult to sense by the male.

Now i see a lot of people saying they can tell, and i'm assuming they're referring mainly to their intuition or their actual sense perception of the psychological signs and/or obvious communication cues. The trouble i myself have here is that it's often times been the case where the woman either doesn't give me any telltale signs or i just don't pick them up due to my inexperience or whatever, therefore leading me to wonder about this all. And also, how would u be able to tell whether a sign like say for example, shaking, was an auto-physiological reaction (or perhaps instinctual) or just a behavioral response, because if it was the latter of these then that could raise various validity dilemmas, like for example whether the shaking was in fact meant as an indication on the female's part that she has climaxed or was it just an attempt at feigning climax, or perhaps whether the shaking was just a sign of sexual arousal and not meant on her part to have any implication of climax? Another sign i've seen mentioned here is quickened pace of arousal/stimulation followed by abrupt cessation by the female. This can certainly indicate climax, but in the absence of other telltale signs this could also just be a signal on the female's part for a change in pace and/or a quick respite and when the female doesn't totally stop altogether how would u know that this wasn't in fact the case? Do u follow me here?

So, i'll just ask u all now HOW can u tell? And why would u say it is her reaching climax when as logic suggests it could be something other than climax? I'm not trying to suggest you're wrong, far from it, i just want to see your rationality for arriving at the conclusion you do. So when u say u "can tell", please explain.

I'll pre-suppose right now that your explanation will involve multiple proximate telltale signs that construe (to the best of your judgement) that the woman has climaxed.



 
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