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tfinch2

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Originally posted by: iRONic
Originally posted by: tjaisv
So when u say u "can tell", please explain.

I'll pre-suppose right now that your explanation will involve multiple proximate telltale signs that construe (to the best of your judgement) that the woman has climaxed.
My wife is a screamer and a squirter. She yells "I'm cumming!!" and then I get soaked.

LOL

Originally posted by: iamme
if it ain't ugly, it ain't real :)

QFT
 

0roo0roo

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depends on how good an actor she is. i'm sure some women can fake every last bit including the contractions..so fogetaboudit
 

y2kc

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Originally posted by: tjaisv
I need to pay more attention next time to the vaginal clenching, i think i've experienced this once but i'm not sure.

the clenching is the involuntary spasm of the vaginal walls that occurs during climax (experienced by some but not all women)...
 

Bryophyte

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Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
this thread is notoriously lacking posts from the few OT females...that's right...i mean you sweetie.
/glares accusingly

It's more entertaining to read this way.
 

tjaisv

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I'm an idiot, i know. I should of targeted my question here to you females directly instead of leaving an open audience. But we men are like that, as u know. :brokenheart: Still that's no excuse, and you know we love u more than anything in the universe, that's why u forgive us as u do. So if i could ask for forgiveness and hope to get some female response then i will be much obliged. :heart:
 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
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Every orgasm is different from orgasm to orgasm and from person to person. And from what I can tell, women don't orgasm the same way twice.

Couple of things to remember:

1) Like 85% of women cannot orgasm from vaginal penetration alone.
2) Know where her clitoris is and how she likes it stimulated (speed, location, movement). To this end, I would suggest observing her masturbate.
3) Nothing can substitute open communication. Men who don't ask and don't communicate are arrogant a-holes! Talk, laugh, cry. Making love is an adventure.
4) Yes, be aggressive when you know she wants it but also know when to be submissive and accept her direction and commands.

In my experience, I know women are satisfied by observing the following:

1) More vocal (moaning).
2) Vaginal contractions.
3) Clitoral area becomes way too sensitive for any kind of additional stimulation.
4) They say so. They wrap their arms around you and say thank you between ghasps.
 

ZeroEffect

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...the only way to know for sure is to spend lots of time with her and communicate your willingness to please her.

Face it guys... she's happy, you're happy. :)
 

iRONic

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Originally posted by: kmr1212
Originally posted by: iRONic
Originally posted by: tjaisv
So when u say u "can tell", please explain.

I'll pre-suppose right now that your explanation will involve multiple proximate telltale signs that construe (to the best of your judgement) that the woman has climaxed.
My wife is a screamer and a squirter. She yells "I'm cumming!!" and then I get soaked.

:Q

He asked...
 

sandorski

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Don't listen to these Posers. They mean well and all, but you need info from someone who KNOWS.

When the woman starts going: "Ow Ow! OWWW!! GTF off me!!!" then you know you've done a good job! :thumbsup: You can take that to the bank, oh ya!