What observations are there of the big bang? What observations are there for matter magically arrnaging itself into conscious life????
What observations are there that a creator did this as well? Seeing "design" and "beauty" in everything does not count as a scientific observation. You can argue all you want with what I just said, but it is the truth. You might not understand that now, but perhaps later you will.
Really, though, have you taken a college level astronomy course? Multiple courses? Studied astronomy, cosmology, physics, etc. on your own? From what you've been saying, I highly doubt it...because I used to be just like you! I knew a little bit, sure, but I bought into the creationist, apologetic, ID stuff as well.
I can personally assure you that there is an overwhelming amount of evidence for the big bang. Just the fact that you mentioned that lets me know how very little you actually know about the scientific studies that have been done throughout the ages. Again, I used to be like that, so don't try to fool me!
As for matter assembling itself into life, perhaps it is just a natural law of the universe that we do not yet understand. There is much to figure out still, but putting these unknown answers behind a creator solves nothing. In fact, you can ask the same questions about a creator! How did it come to be? Why did it come to be? Someone might answer that it's beyond our scope of knowledge, that the creator is timeless, or so on. But how are any of these answers more or less satisfying than what possible answers or theories we have for a natural universe? Why would someone scoff at the fact that we're not sure HOW life came to be, yet they're satisfied having NO CLUE why or how their creator came to be? You may think a creator is the end-all, be-all, and that these questions do not apply. Why not, though? No one can give a good reason for that. They tend to just brush it off, even if they do give some sort of answer.
Actually, though, there has been quite a bit of progress in the studies of how matter assembled itself into life. And unlike someone seeing "beauty" in things and using half-baked philosophy, these studies involve hard, scientific evidence and studies.
Simply put, you seem to know very little about the side you're arguing against. Nothing you have said has convinced me otherwise. And remember, I know your side very, very well. I was there for a few years! I also know the side you're arguing against fairly well. So, I can only suggest that you spend your time researching the side your arguing against very, very well. Open your mind, and treat all sides equally without any sort of bias. I promise you that it is a much better way to spend your time than arguing on here about something you obviously know very little about. The ID proponents generally don't have their scientific facts straight, so it's very easy to be mislead by them and THINK you know the other side well.