Originally posted by: Rob9874
Can you help me confrim my gaydar suspicion? I have a good friend who I suspect as being gay. I don't care one way or the other, but he's never come out, and I respect his privacy too much to ask. But it's driving me crazy - I have to know.
He's a good looking 30-year-old guy, works out daily, and in the 4 years I've known him has never had a girlfriend or had a girl date. He has many guy friends, and has been talking about one in particular for months now. This particular guy, he mentioned is good friends with the mayor of Tempe, AZ, who has come out as being gay. (Why would he tell me that?) I also saw his wallpaper on his computer, and it's a pic of that guy. While in Amsterdam last month for work, this friend flew over, and they took a week off to visit Paris and London (not to mention Amsterdam, which is the "gay capital of the world").
So, is he gay, or am I crazy. And like I said, I don't care one way or the other. He's just a real good friend (flew from AZ to PA for my wedding), and it's weird not knowing such a huge thing about a good friend.