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Problem: Asian Male marries a White Female

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Originally posted by: Mill
I bet your ass that you can get half of the family to miss the wedding day by offering free Dale Jr. shirts at the local Walmart.
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:laugh: 😀

I agree, the guy needs to stand up for himself. Someone tell him the truth about white women, and that 75% of them are impossible to live with.
 
Originally posted by: J0hnny
Hey xospec, this is all true. The brides family (white) does not consent to their marraige. However, they will let them marry because, as I said earlier, they are partners in their own law practice.

The white family is openly racist to the grooms family. To add insult to injury, they told them that it's their daughter's marraige and not their sons marraige.

The parents of the groom do not want to disown their son but that's what we're telling them to do because he has completely lost any reasoning and will just do whatever his soon-to-be wife says.

Remember, the bride is now in emotional turmoil too. Either way, this is such a disgrace. Just talking about this infuriates me.
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you never said anything about being partners in a law practice. whos practice? the parents? bride and groom's parents? if so, what is this doing to the practice then? thats lame....

EDIT: oh wait...the bride and groom are law partners? how sweet...if thats the case then, why does that simple fact alone convince the brides parents to let them marry?

ermm as for the last point...the bride needs to grow a pair and do it her way, its HER wedding...if she doesn't want it to be done this way then cut the family off forever...who gives a flying eff? the onus is on the bride more than the groom. as for the groom...he has in affect, disowned his parents. he needs to live with that. and so do the parents.

 
Originally posted by: TuxDave
If they can't afford the ceremony without anyone's support, then I say they should hold a very small one and everyone's invited. If the white parents aren't happy with it, then they don't have to come. Same goes with the asian ones.
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exactly. if the bride is unwilling to do this, it shows how much she cares...or...doesn't care about her fiancee's family...
 
One Chinese saying: "One kind of rice, for all kinds of people"
most likely their marriage is doom but who knows... talk to your friend but what can you do?
 
Originally posted by: J0hnny
Hey xospec, this is all true. The brides family (white) does not consent to their marraige. However, they will let them marry because, as I said earlier, they are partners in their own law practice.

The white family is openly racist to the grooms family. To add insult to injury, they told them that it's their daughter's marraige and not their sons marraige.

The parents of the groom do not want to disown their son but that's what we're telling them to do because he has completely lost any reasoning and will just do whatever his soon-to-be wife says.

Remember, the bride is now in emotional turmoil too. Either way, this is such a disgrace. Just talking about this infuriates me.
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I knew there was some bs here. First of all his first loyalty is to that of HIS WIFE. Not his parents or you. 2nd you are on here calling them racist and yet you are with a group who is telling his parents to disown him. Who the f' are you people to tell someone's else's parents to disown their child cause he won't kiss your ass. And more than likely you along with this group have started some stuff thats why they don't want you there, not beacuse they are racist, but you guys are full of crap. And when you want hear the voice of real lowlife racist, its the ones who start with that disowning bs. I think you suck man and I hope he marries his woman and kicks you to the curb.
 
LOL I wonder what those people on that interracial hate forum would say. "Noooooo, our whayat wimmin be marrin dat dere asian feller!"
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😕 i'm sure they'd be using something a little more stronger than that.
 
Originally posted by: Pepsi90919
LOL I wonder what those people on that interracial hate forum would say. "Noooooo, our whayat wimmin be marrin dat dere asian feller!"
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😕 i'm sure they'd be using something a little more stronger than that.
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Yep. Don't credit them with that much humility.
 
Originally posted by: classy
I knew there was some bs here. First of all his first loyalty is to that of HIS WIFE. Not his parents or you. 2nd you are on here calling them racist and yet you are with a group who is telling his parents to disown him. Who the f' are you people to tell someone's else's parents to disown their child cause he won't kiss your ass. And more than likely you along with this group have started some stuff thats why they don't want you there, not beacuse they are racist, but you guys are full of crap. And when you want hear the voice of real lowlife racist, its the ones who start with that disowning bs. I think you suck man and I hope he marries his woman and kicks you to the curb.
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good point, the loyalty really is to the wife rather than the family...The wedding...it is more for the bride and groom than it is for the family of the bride and groom...to disown a child because they don't want other relatives other than immediate family at the wedding is harsh...this is easier said than typed...sorry j0hnny now that i've thought about it...ur solution is a tad harsh...

if you wanna hear my side on it, you know how to reach me =)


EDIT: and what makes the white family racist? what have they done? i dunno...if they were really racist i would think they'd disown their kid for marrying an asian dude....
 
unless she refuses to allow her family to treat his with such disrespect, he'd be a fool to marry this woman.
 
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
Originally posted by: classy
I knew there was some bs here. First of all his first loyalty is to that of HIS WIFE. Not his parents or you. 2nd you are on here calling them racist and yet you are with a group who is telling his parents to disown him. Who the f' are you people to tell someone's else's parents to disown their child cause he won't kiss your ass. And more than likely you along with this group have started some stuff thats why they don't want you there, not beacuse they are racist, but you guys are full of crap. And when you want hear the voice of real lowlife racist, its the ones who start with that disowning bs. I think you suck man and I hope he marries his woman and kicks you to the curb.
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good point, the loyalty really is to the wife rather than the family...The wedding...it is more for the bride and groom than it is for the family of the bride and groom...to disown a child because they don't want other relatives other than immediate family at the wedding is harsh...this is easier said than typed...sorry j0hnny now that i've thought about it...ur solution is a tad harsh...

if you wanna hear my side on it, you know how to reach me =)


EDIT: and what makes the white family racist? what have they done? i dunno...if they were really racist i would think they'd disown their kid for marrying an asian dude....
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It seems some of you (*coughs loudly at the 2 people in quotes*) are under the impression that marriage both begins and ends at the ceremony. We're not just talking about one day here.
 
Originally posted by: mobobuff

It seems some of you (*coughs loudly at the 2 people in quotes*) are under the impression that marriage both begins and ends at the ceremony. We're not just talking about one day here.
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thats why my solution is to cut off the instigating in laws(bride's parents) and have a private ceremony they finance themselves...and you know what, the wedding really is for the two people getting married, if the parents of either bride or groom doesn't like whats being done, they do not have to attend nor do they need to have relations with them later on...and the groom, allowing this to happen has basically gave his family the big "eff you" so would it really be that big of a loss?
 
Shoo... I might be ending up marrying a white woman... I've been dating with white girls since growing up and I'm an asian myself.

Maybe asian/white interracial marriages can end up having so beautiful children such as Kristen Kreuk.
 
Dude, you...oops, I mean "your friend" needs to put his foot down and tell his racist soon to be in-laws that his family and friends WILL be coming to the wedding or you will just drive to Vegas and get married without them being there. If "your friend's" wife isn't on board with this then I suggest you...oops, I mean "your friend" find himself another woman.
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Dude, you...oops, I mean "your friend" needs to put his foot down and tell his racist soon to be in-laws that his family and friends WILL be coming to the wedding or you will just drive to Vegas and get married without them being there. If "your friend's" wife isn't on board with this then I suggest you...oops, I mean "your friend" find himself another woman.
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funny, but it really is his friend...if you read the poon thread then you'd know that j0hnny can't even get some...let alone get married heehe
 
IMHO the parents are doing this to try and stop the wedding, they are purposely creating friction beforehand in the hopes that the children will call it off....

Classy mentioned that if they were hard core racists they wouldn't agree to the marriage, I think that if it gets close enough then this will come about....maybe they will not invite the asians and then at the last minute they themselves will say they are not going either?

either way, the guy should just leave the girl if she will side with her parents over him.
 
Originally posted by: bozack
IMHO the parents are doing this to try and stop the wedding, they are purposely creating friction beforehand in the hopes that the children will call it off....

Classy mentioned that if they were hard core racists they wouldn't agree to the marriage, I think that if it gets close enough then this will come about....maybe they will not invite the asians and then at the last minute they themselves will say they are not going either?

either way, the guy should just leave the girl if she will side with her parents over him.
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i dont think the bride is so much agreeing w/ her parents as she is more threatened? or afraid of losing her family over this...so she will go along with it. she does not have the balls to deviate from this plan, just as her groom does not have the balls to speak up about it.

best solution, cancel the wedding, finance it themselves, do it on their own terms. if the parents get pissed off either which way they end up doing it, its their loss... the wedding is for the bride and groom, everyone else is just filler....
 
Originally posted by: xospec1alk
=i dont think the bride is so much agreeing w/ her parents as she is more threatened? or afraid of losing her family over this...so she will go along with it. she does not have the balls to deviate from this plan, just as her groom does not have the balls to speak up about it.

best solution, cancel the wedding, finance it themselves, do it on their own terms. if the parents get pissed off either which way they end up doing it, its their loss... the wedding is for the bride and groom, everyone else is just filler....
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The BEST plan is for both of them to call the wedding off and break up until they are both mature enough to deal with the situation at hand...

 
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