[POLL] - Your own experience - sex before marriage ?

[rh71]

Straight-up poll about WHAT YOU DID / ARE GOING TO DO.

(I wonder if I can ask this without religion being mentioned)... I believe in waiting, but I don't do it because of religious reasons...

 

[ohtwell]

I had sex before marriage. I think it's a bad idea not to.


: ) Amanda

 

[notfred]

I did. I don't feel bad about it.

 

[Asharus]

According to my religion, I'm going to hell. Might as well keep doing it.

 

[tranceport]

I think I'm ok. Married for almost 2 years now.

 

[yukichigai]

Am I going to screw every chick I can? No.

Am I going to have sex with a girl I love, even if we know we aren't going to get married? Yes.

Sex isn't just fun, it can be the nicest thing you can do for/with someone else. Especially if you're a "considerate lover". At least, that's what all my ladyfriends keep telling me. Again. And again. And again.

 

[Kenazo]

First time was on our wedding night. great fun.

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: ohtwell
I had sex before marriage. I think it's a bad idea not to.


: ) Amanda

Test drive huh ?

 

[StageLeft]

Some people think it's fine. Some people don't. The latter group will cave and do it anyway, except in a tiny, tiny minority of cases.

 

[mdennison]

No sex before marriage is like buying a car that you have never driven!

And then you will have to learn how to drive! lol

anyways blah blah

 

[Fingolfin269]

Originally posted by: Skoorb
Some people think it's fine. Some people don't. The latter group will cave and do it anyway, except in a tiny, tiny minority of cases.

Skoorb, I think this can be directly related to your thread regarding young women and the people on this forum. The age factor is definately at play here.

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: mdennison
No sex before marriage is like buying a car that you have never driven!

And then you will have to learn how to drive! lol

anyways blah blah

No it's more like testing the acceleration/torque of a car you already like...

If you love the car but the torque is mediocre, you can still live with it because everything else is enough to keep you satisfied... and you can still show it off.

 

[cronos]

'i did not have a sexual relationship' before i got married.

 

[bobbybe01]

I guess it depends on your viewpoint. Some will respect those who choose to wait, while looking down on those who try desperately but fail. I choose to wait.

 

[Reliant]

I have before marriage and will continue. Sex isn't that big of a deal when all things are said and done.

 

[Anubis]

sex is great
screw the not before marrage crap

 

[Lithium381]

Originally posted by: Kenazo
First time was on our wedding night. great fun.

i heard that's bad :Q

 

[rh71]

How many of you have heard of people saying they wish they had waited ?

 

[gistech1978]

yes, already have.

if im seeing a woman and she pulls this 'im saving it for marriage' line...dont let the door hit you on the way out.

 

[PanzerIV]

I had it and saw no problem with it.

 

[cronos]

Originally posted by: rh71
How many of you have heard of people saying they wish they had waited ?

many times, and that made me feel warm inside

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: rh71
How many of you have heard of people saying they wish they had waited ?

Never!

 

[Reliant]

Originally posted by: rh71
How many of you have heard of people saying they wish they had waited ?

I've heard people say that they weren't ready for sex the first time that they did it but never that they wish they waited till marriage.

 

[yukichigai]

Originally posted by: Reliant

Originally posted by: rh71
How many of you have heard of people saying they wish they had waited ?

I've heard people say that they weren't ready for sex the first time that they did it but never that they wish they waited till marriage.

I think it's very rare that anybody is ready for their first time. A lot of unfamiliar flesh and whatnot. But you learn quick.

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: gistech1978
yes, already have.

if im seeing a woman and she pulls this 'im saving it for marriage' line...dont let the door hit you on the way out.

Well of course... obviously you want them for sex and they'd be of no use to you if they don't want to, no matter the excuse.