Poll: virgins: would you change it if you could?

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Whitedog

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Dec 22, 1999
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I'm not a virgin, FAR from it... in fact I've had to visit the doctors a few times for whatever reasons.. ;)

Anyway, I decided to go celibate after my last encounter with the doctor in late 1994. I'm 38 now. Yes, that's right, I haven't had Sex in 6 and a half years! Sometimes it bothers the HELL out of me, but I can take care of my urges when I need to...

I've been dating a WONDERFUL Beautiful girl for 2 years now. She just turned 32 last week, and she is still a Virgin. There is no doubt for you guys who might think otherwise.

She had to keep me in check a "LOT" when we first started dating, but I have complete control now.

For those who think you can't date and be in love without sex, you are 100% wrong. We will be marrying soon, as soon as she works out some issues with her (Evil) mother. ;), j/k mom!
 

amdskip

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Jan 6, 2001
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I am 18 and will be a virgin until I am married! Sex is God's gift to married couples!
 

gUEv

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Oct 11, 2000
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jesus christ...my heart goes out to some of you.
i first had sex when i was 13, and i dont regret it. there is a difference between f.ucking and making love. fuc.king would be that girl at the party that looks good, making love would be when your with someone you really care about. I've been in both situations, and obviously the latter is better. That doesnt mean we have to shut ourselves in from sex completly, as long as your smart (as in protection) and are mature enough (this is not an age thing, this is abbout you individually) there is no harm in it, but rather a whole lot of sweet loving and good feeelings.

I wouldnt want to have to wait my whole like to be with someone who will absolutley suck in bed (assuming they will be a virgin) when i (hypothectically..because im never getting married) marry some girl. fumbling around...being nervous and anxious. All for something that will last for 2 seconds ;) Your whole life, you have been building this moment up as a scene from some cheesy movie or romance novel, when in fact...it will usually be less then grand.

Life doesn't have to be that serious man..like i said, just be smart and concious of what your doing, and premarital sex can be quite...fun actually (who would have thought?!)