Poll: virgins: would you change it if you could?

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bigbootydaddy

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i wish i was one...well back a while ago, cause when me and the ex got around to it, i wasnt one, and i rather have had my first time be with someone i really loved and not a one night stand at age 15.

the first time i was thinking all night...its now or never!!

but i regret it so much.
 

Xzaver

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Dec 1, 1999
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Damn Am I glad I didn't have sex with my first GF that's all I can say , I was only 15 at the time. , Do your selfs a favor gentlemen wait , don't rush because you were are you going ?


~X~
 

Isla

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Mr Isla was a 24 year old virgin when we got married, and I was a young divorcee with some experience but not a lot. "Gently Used, Like New!" :D

I was attracted to him in part because he was actively trying NOT to get in my pants. I liked that. I was tired of always having to squirm away from guys who thought that after a couple of dates I should put out for them or something.

The most important thing is that the relationship is not based on sex.

Sex is the wrong thing to base a relationship on... it should be the icing on the cake, so to speak.

Just my .02
 

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Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
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Waiting to have sex until your married is a BAD idea!its like buying a car without test driving it,you don't know if you got a LEMON!

That analogy quickly falls apart under scrutiny. A car's primary purpose is to be driven, a wife's primary purpose is not sex.

Try again.

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BearX00

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I waited 20 years before i had sex. It was with my current girlfriend, we waited six months which i thought was good and im very happy with the decision we made, sex is great and its hard to go without it now. but at least i know that i gave it up to someone who is important to me and special, not some one night stand. After 15months together, i can say it wasnt a wrong decision.
 

konichiwa

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<< a wife's primary purpose is not sex >

I agree with Viper 100% on this one. Wives are for cooking and cleaning!

*runs, and looks behind and sees GF and Isla chasing me on their brooms
 

Isla

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/me smacks Koni upside the head with a trout

Sex is a gift from me... the cooking and cleaning must be paid for separately.

;) :D
 

bcterps

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<< Sex is a gift from me... the cooking and cleaning must be paid for separately. >>



Is that why women want jewelry all the time? I still cant understand women's infatuation with jewelry. Then again, my fiancee doesnt understand my infatuation with all things electronic hehe.

--Ben
 

TravisBickle

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I don't think virgins are having it bad.
every other porno movie I'm seeing has a virgin in it. they can look after themselves in bed I'm telling you!
 

ArkAoss

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yes right now, if i could get some within reason, i am sooo bored, i'd probably take it.. . . but i am a virgin, but if givin the chance to get with the right person, in the mood im in right now (extremly terribly horridly bored ) i'd go for it..
 

Scrapster

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< < Waiting to have sex until your married is a BAD idea!its like buying a car without test driving it,you don't know if you got a LEMON! > >

But do you really need to test drive a Royals Royce?

Scraps
 

Yeeny

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Koni: Chasing you on our brooms? So now we are witches eh? ;) I feel so special now, its good to know women are respected for our minds and not only our domestic abilities.... :p
 

Nutcase99

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I'm a virgin because I want to be! :D

Seriously when I find the right girl I will not be a virgin anymore. I have had offers but no thanks, you really arn't what I'm looking for.
 

Soybomb

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Hehe this poll is so different than what I expected too see! I didn't expect this many non-virgins, nor the honesty from as many virgins on by choice or not :)
 

Yeeny

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now? NOW you're witches!?! AHAHAHAHA

LMAO! How rude, insinuating that I am anything but a sweet innocent charming woman. And BTW, I am not a witch, but if you change the W to a B your a heck of a lot closer..... ;)
 

BigAl3du

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I am a virgin by choice right now, I have had several oppertunities to get laid just thought i would do it in a relationship. :) I am only 15 so this is rather young too.... :)
 
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I could have got laid years ago at age 11 (from a more experienced woman was was 19 but I backed away. Its not like I didnt know what sex was. I had been told about it by my parents at age 7/8. They didnt want me to learn it from the encyclopedia. Anyway I am still a virgin. I am not in a hurry to let it go, but If and When I do fall in love I will definitly give it as a gift to my girl friend.

So far trying to get a girl to date me is the hardest thing. Dont ask me why but I need someone who can take the initative. I am too shy to do certain things. Like this one girl who I went out with. 2 minutes of getting into my car she wanted to make out and get it on (later found out she was a virgin). It shocked me. Here is a girl who hardly knows me but expects me to do her. I didnt .. and I walked away... I told my friends later who couldnt believe I walked away from every guys dream.


 

dopcombo

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Nov 14, 2000
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The_Good_Guy, u must be really cute or something.

heh, never got any... probably never will.
Most girls dun look at me cos i am fat and quite ugly for my race.
 

johnjohn320

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Jan 9, 2001
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Well, I'm 14, and I'm still a virgin. Obviously, the reasons I'm still a virgin are very complex.;)

Actually, I turn 15 tomorrow. Then I'll be old enough, right? LOL j/k. Lord knows I want to, it's on my mind 24/7, like every teenager, but I'm not dumb enough to do it. Besides, I can't even get a g/f anyway.:eek:
 

BigToque

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Oct 10, 1999
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I just cant get any. I swear I'm probably gonna snap and take the first girl that offers (unless shes snast)...
 

Zenmervolt

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Oct 22, 2000
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I can top most of you. Not only am I a virgin, I've never even kissed a girl. (OK, so the latter is not by choice) :frown: Actually, I've just not met someone with whom I've gotten remotely serious with. I guess that's OK as I'm only a college Freshman. I agree with Viper completely, while I cannot say that I don't care about sex, I do have to say that a good mental relationship is much more important to me than any physical relationship. No point in spending the rest of my life with someone who is good in bed but with whom I cannot carry on a conversation.

Zenmervolt
 

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Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
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Zenmervolt...

Until three weeks ago, I had that problem too. I'll tell you in advice, it's a very nice feeling to get rid of it for good, &amp; to pulverize any remaining symptoms of it.

;)

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