Poll: virgins: would you change it if you could?

[Soybomb]

Every once in a while the threads pop up here and a bunch of people always mention that they are still virgins. My questions is how many of you choose to be a virgin and how many of you just can't get any. Be honest hehe.

 

[IBhacknU]

I'm not a virgin... but I play one on TV

 

[BiggieN]

Virgin by choice...at least that's what i'd like to tell myself

 

[8ball]

Does born again count? After so long, it seems like you are. But only because it has to be right.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

I've chosen to remain a virgin for as long as I have. In fact, the reason I broke up with my last bf was because he was heavily pressuring me to sleep with him. He really kind of started to scare me because he would talk about coming in through my bedroom window at night and stuff. lol I may be able to hold out until I get married, but I've never really been in love so I can't say that I would never do it--before marriage. I'm human.

 

[Soybomb]

Good call hzl_eyed_grl, sounds a tad scary! Besides after waiting about what? 20 years? Whats another few years even right? I'm not into recreational sex, I love my g/f, but to each his own.

 

[IBhacknU]

<< I'm not into recreational sex >>

Well, you should try it sometime. Sex in an RV can be quite exhilarating

 

[Stallion]

It's nice to know not everyone is eager to jump in the sack just for the heck of it Haz_eyed_grl.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

24 years. (Very close to 25 years.) But, you were close enough. lol Like I said... I may be able to hold out. But if I don't, I won't beat myself up over it. I know I'm only human. I also know that whomever I choose to be with, it will be because I love him.

 

[Ulfwald]

Hzl, as a guy, I can honestly say I have more than played the field. And I reget most of those that I played. I am now 33, and I can honestly say I wish I had waited for the right one.

 

[Stallion]

Spoken like a true lady.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

ulf, I understand what you mean. I don't want to regret the person I'm with.

Stallion, thanks.

 

[bcterps]

I've been a virgin for the last 23 years, but that will change this June when I get married. I am glad that I waited? Definitely! It hasnt always been the easiest thing, but the benefits will definitely outweigh the struggle.

--Ben

 

[Stallion]

Nice job benchiu, I just gave rated you a &quot;10&quot; for your efforts.

 

[Engine]

I was a virgin until six months ago, when I got married. I don't regret our decision to wait at all, but boy am I happy not to be waiting any more

 

[Zipperhead]

waiting to have sex until your married is a BAD idea!its like buying a car without test driving it,you don't know if you got a LEMON!i have been with a few women,sometimes it clicks other times it doesn't.

 

[Wangel]

Premarital sex is very important. What happens if it doesn't fit! It would be a shame to get married to find out that it doesn't fit. This is why I dumped my last girlfriend. It didn't fit. Well,...... At least I think, I was trying to put it in the right place. The lights were out, I'm really not sure anymore.

 

[Zipperhead]

wangel-your killin me (LOL) thats some funny $hit

 

[Zipperhead]

i dated this girl for 3weeks,i thought iwas gonna marry her.she was absolutely GORGEOUS,we gad the best times together,when iwasn't with her i was thinking anout her.then we slept together,
there was nothin there-it was done.

 

[Descartes]

I am only 20, and my first was w/ my girlfriend of two years who I (thought) truly loved.

For the rebound, I took up some offers from girls that had showed interest in me while I was w/ my girlfriend. I can say that I felt truly ashamed, callow, and I sincerely regret it.

Live and learn. Sex, to me, means nothing if you don't love the person.

 

[Engine]

Zipperhead: That's just like, your opinion, man.

I disagree with you. Strongly.

 

[thraashman]

I like to think I'm a virgin by choice. I don't actively try to get laid or anything, and I try to maintain self control. But I think if a girl I cared about asked me to sleep with her (hell maybe even a girl who was just deathly hot) I think I'd probably say yes, but I don't know until that situation comes up.

 

[Elledan]

About the same as thraashman.

 

[dude]

I wish I was a virgin. All these one night stands got me wondering which hoe gave me the genital herpes that's creeping all over my face, arms, and legs. Yuk.

 

[divinemartyr]

dude

I HOPE you are joking about the herpes thing. If you aren't, that sucks big time I am not a virgin and I don't regret not being one. I've only been with people I was in love with, at least in whatever capacity I was able to at the time. Right now I am happily in love in my best relationship ever. I'll probably marry this girl eventually, but not anytime soon.

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